Daughter and Adult Toys

[Wakeup]

pffft! Make mine with butter and salt.

Indie you're gonna blow a gasket one day the way you let your emotions get the better of you around here. O.o

[Maple1714]

It's a vibrator not a male prostitute the OP is bringing home for her daughter to experiment with. I wouldn't have wanted my mother to describe to me how to use my fingers to orgasm when I was a teenager...gross. I figured it out on my own...so will your daughter...without having sex. It's not rocket science. If she is asking for a vibrator then she has most definitely given herself an orgasm other ways already. You should be proud she is trying to hold off on the sex.

Is it really that hard to go buy a vibrator when you are under 18? Sorry I missed it, how old is your daughter? Doesn't she have a bank account of her own with a debit card to use online? I was working and had my own account when I was 14...make sure when she does decide to have sex that she is educated on what planned parenthood offers....just sayin...she can go there for anything she needs with cash without a parent.

[OriginalWogBoy]

Stop trying to stir shit or I'll turn my sights on you next. Wakeup knows she's wrong in this.

Just trying to lighten the mood

[Wakeup]

It's a vibrator not a male prostitute the OP is bringing home for her daughter to experiment with. I wouldn't have wanted my mother to describe to me how to use my fingers to orgasm when I was a teenager...gross.

No one said her mother should describe how to do it. It was recommended that she ask her she has orgasmed without a vibrator and consider that before the use of one. I wouldn't want to describe how to either. *shudders*

If she is asking for a vibrator then she has most definitely given herself an orgasm other ways already.

It's not a definate. I wouldn't have mentioned what I did if it was.

You should be proud she is trying to hold off on the sex.

That I definately agree with.

[vashti]

*grumble*

No one is commenting on my funny link.

>:-/

[IndiReloaded]

Indie you're gonna blow a gasket one day the way you let your emotions get the better of you around here. O.o

I don't think I've ever seen you apologize for a post or admit you are wrong for insulting a poster. Notice how the OP hasn't come back (thanks to you). I'm not the inflexible one here, Shutup. LOL.

[IndiReloaded]

Just trying to lighten the mood

You're right, sorry. BTW, I love Australia and Australians.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

*grumble*

No one is commenting on my funny link.

>:-/

Mean girls. Classic.

I'm a 26 y/o, hetero male, and I think it's hilarious.

[Wakeup]

I don't think I've ever seen you apologize for a post or admit you are wrong for insulting a poster. Notice how the OP hasn't come back (thanks to you). I'm not the inflexible one here, Shutup. LOL.

Have you noticed that most of the opening posters never return regardless? Please! If she does come back and tell me that I owe her an apology then perhaps I would. Certainly not because you deem it. I'll add that your "apology" after your many insensitive responses to Op's who have actually called you on your shit usually consists of "If you wanted us to tell you what you wanted to hear then maybe you should go to www.tellmewhatIwanttohear.com." pfft.

[IndiReloaded]

Have you noticed that most of the opening posters never return regardless? Please! If she does come back and tell me that I owe her an apology then perhaps I would. Certainly not because you deem it. I'll add that your "apology" after your many insensitive responses to Op's who have actually called you on your shit usually consists of "If you wanted us to tell you what you wanted to hear then maybe you should go to www.tellmewhatIwanttohear.com." pfft.

Oooh. Now look who's getting upset. LOL!

Point is, I have apologized. So have others. But I have *never* seen such from you except nasty bile. Your advice was fine right up until you needed to insult the mother. There was no need for you to turn the knife in her, she was open to the discussion and wasn't ignoring anyone's advice (except maybe yours). Anyway, my comebacks when I use them are actually unique. I got a lot of Thanks for that fake url. The best you can do is copy some teenager txt speak. pfft. O.o. etc.

Anyway, you are only digging yourself in now. I've made my point. You will slink away for a while b/c you know I'm right and we'll see a slight change to your posts. Its not the first time you've been called out. I've noticed you've stopped promoting your favourite codependency book.

[Wakeup]

Oooh. Now look who's getting upset. LOL!

Point is, I have apologized. So have others. But I have *never* seen such from you except nasty bile. Your advice was fine right up until you needed to insult the mother. There was no need for you to turn the knife in her, she was open to the discussion and wasn't ignoring anyone's advice (except maybe yours). Anyway, my comebacks when I use them are actually unique. I got a lot of Thanks for that fake url. The best you can do is copy some teenager txt speak. pfft. O.o. etc.

Anyway, you are only digging yourself in now. I've made my point. You will slink away for a while b/c you know I'm right and we'll see a slight change to your posts. Its not the first time you've been called out. I've noticed you've stopped promoting your favourite codependency book.

Ya see, Indie it's all in your head. You try to chastise me and then you think you see a a change in me or you think you see me "slink" away because your own ego gets the better of you. Whatever keeps you happy, it's certainly no skin off my nose. I do laugh though.

Now this has gotten quite silly to keep on keeping on about that one line. I do indeed hope that Mom and kid have a educational fun time together. I also hope she doesn't disregard the fact that her daughter could very well become accustomed to her choice and from then on out can't orgasm any other way. Something for her to think about. Nothing more, nothing less.

Anyway, my comebacks when I use them are actually unique. I got a lot of Thanks for that fake url.

You think that makes what you've said okay (sans apology) because your possy of mean girls comes in and overuses the thanks button.. alrighty then.

[Maple1714]

possy

*posse*

Yes, this back and forth is dumb, but Wakeup you are a little bit of a bully sometimes. You give good objective advice most of the time, but there is always an air of judgement. Everyone is guilty of this from time to time, but you can well, be a bully. I can't tell if your judgement comes from religion...? Or just a really cynical outlook on life b/c you have let too much pain jade you...? Anyway, your line about the dildo hunt was funny, but came across as if you were passing judgment on the mother. I think Indi just wants you to acknowledge that you do this, so the conversations here can have more depth.

[IndiReloaded]

I think Indi just wants you to acknowledge that you do this, so the conversations here can have more depth.

Want is a much stronger term than I would use. "Suggest" is my preferred. Bluntness has a place, but its the only tool she ever uses. Wakeup doesn't understand using empathy to create depth of discussion.

Carry on Wakeup. Consider a dictionary while you are at it.

[Wakeup]

*posse*

Yes, this back and forth is dumb, but Wakeup you are a little bit of a bully sometimes. You give good objective advice most of the time, but there is always an air of judgement. Everyone is guilty of this from time to time, but you can well, be a bully. I can't tell if your judgement comes from religion...? Or just a really cynical outlook on life b/c you have let too much pain jade you...? Anyway, your line about the dildo hunt was funny, but came across as if you were passing judgment on the mother. I think Indi just wants you to acknowledge that you do this, so the conversations here can have more depth.

Interesting conclusion: Because I don’t censor myself when I reply that it boils down to only two reasons. Either I’m somehow jaded from life or religion made me do it. Neither actually, as I said, I just don’t censor myself, particularly when I see people overlooking other slants on things or when I see people (IMO) feeding into an Oposters issues by telling them things they want to hear instead of things that they need to accept and/or realize before they’ll fix what’s currently broken. That’s known as not “enabling” (ha, Indi’s favourite word) and it doesn’t do anyone any good being an enabler.
Maple, giving one’s opinion sans sugar coating isn’t bullying. Straight shooting doesn’t mean one is without empathy either. Keep in mind that Every time everyone of us disagrees with what a poster is doing, saying or putting up with, we are judging them and their choices.
I have no issue with you. Feel free to corrent my spelling anytime. We all know I can't spell.

As for what Indie would like me to do, well I really don’t give a flying fk what Indie would like me to do.

[IndiReloaded]

Rush Limbaugh wannabe. What an aspiration for life. LOL.