Two months ago, I met a really great guy from another city who happened to be visiting for the weekend. We hit it off wonderfully and haven't gone a day without talking since. Early on, we would both constantly reiterate how much we liked each other and how eager we were to pursue whatever it was we had, despite the challenge of distance. We've also made it clear that we're exclusive, and that we plan to visit each other on a regular basis. But, we aren't officially "together", even though we act like we are in every other way besides the title.
We've only had a few visits so far, but I feel like I'm starting to cross over from the infatuation/honeymoon phase into the beginnings of an actual-deep-feelings phase. Which is scary to me, considering the distance and the fairly casual nature of this all. We haven't talked about this sort of thing in a while. I think he could feel the same just going by the way he acts, but still, I don't really know how to proceed.
I want to commit to a real relationship with him, and I know that in LDR's there needs to be an "end date" where you two will be living in the same area. Makes a lot of sense to do that when pre-existing relationships go long distance, but it's kind of tricky when it starts out that way. I'm willing to make the move at some point in the future (I've wanted to live in his area for a long time regardless and don't have much holding me to my home town; he knows this) but I'm scared he'd think I'm moving too fast if I bring it up. Considering how LDRs develop slower than normal, and you aren't even physically in each others' lives, I don't know how to get it to that next level. It feels like... to get to the next level, you have to live nearby, and to commit to moving nearby, you have to already be at that next level.
Is two months too soon to talk about getting more serious in this situation? And does anyone else have experience beginning a relationship with someone far away?