Is cheating OK?

[searock]

Probably needs a new brain also...

[Love'sReject]

No. Just no.

[Wakeup]

They're implying it and without a flat denial, an implication is an admission.

Well you're implying by your reasoning that you likely rode the short bus to school.

[Love'sReject]

Hey, you and I agree on things; therefore, you shouldn't be implying I am retarded.

[IndiReloaded]

No, its not okay. If your partner gives permission of any form (swingers, a 'break' to see others, a mistress b/c you've lost all feeling below the waist in a horrific accident), then its not cheating anymore is it? Duh.

[Love'sReject]

EXACTLY. And yet some here...hurm...

[IndiReloaded]

Well, define 'cheating'. When the same term gets different, conflicting responses, look to how its being defined (or not).

[Love'sReject]

I really think that, although I don't ordinarily look at things in terms of absolutism, but cheating is clearcut to me.

[IndiReloaded]

Can you explain clearly to your partner tho, and come to agreement?

[Love'sReject]

In theory if I had one, then yes, I could define what constitutes cheating in a very concise manner.

[Ladybuggg]

are u shore i was here you saw that?
i dont remember seying a lot of people saying that here.

But what ever they say u need to worry about what s good for u to do. and tht is not to cheat.

i think cheating is a act that kills the heart of the other person. cause in a relationship people put
a lot of trust i guess the most trust they put in their partner and very fast.

and when you cheat its like a knife in the heart. and thats why people have hard times to forgive such a act.

so dont go there. if you feel like you want to mess around , be a men /woman and mature and break up and go do your mess.
dont use others heart for that. thats cruel.

[Chrissamateen]

I have Cheated and it Caused More Heart Ache than You Can Imagine... The Real Crapper of the Whole thing is that the Guy I Cheated with was My First Love and High School Sweetheart. Long Story Short... He Dumped Me, I'm Still Deeply Deeply Deeply In-Love with Him and He wants Nothing to Do with Me.

[roygoodbeat]

Cheating is not OK. When you have been in a relationship for a long time and you have children, it's a line that should not be crossed. Its hard when you are the other in the relationship who is being cheated on. It not only effects you but the family unit.

[searock]

When you have been in a relationship for a long time and you have children, it's a line that should not be crossed.

It shouldn't be crossed in any romantic relationship, not just marriage with children: what's the point of being in a relationship with someone, if you're going to betray their trust?

[HeartIsAching]

This tool-bag has got to be a troll.

Albeit one of the cleverer ones.