Need help dealing with something my girlfriend just told me

[Love'sReject]

You're a lesbian dude.

Lolwut? brah, just...brah, cmon now.

[VincenzoG91]

The most favorable way that I can interpret your girlfriend's story is that she has a drinking problem, and some of her male co-workers interpret her inappropriate drunkness on these trips as an opportunity to get laid.

In reality, I think that she enjoys hooking up with dudes on these trips and is using alcohol as a way to give herself permission to behave badly with them. And she has probably acquired a reputation for this at her company.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

The most favorable way that I can interpret your girlfriend's story is that she has a drinking problem, and some of her male co-workers interpret her inappropriate drunkness on these trips as an opportunity to get laid.

In reality, I think that she enjoys hooking up with dudes on these trips and is using alcohol as a way to give herself permission to behave badly with them. And she has probably acquired a reputation for this at her company.

Translation: "Your" girl is a slut.

[surfhb]

If you want unbiased advise you'd be wise to move on.

[Love'sReject]

Dump the ho; she was never your girl. I wouldn't be surprised if she'd been ****ing those other guys up to this time. You can never trust a cheater.

[IndiReloaded]

Sorry, she's a dud. Too much drama 3 months in. Most people are still in 'best behaviour' mode at that point. She doesn't respect herself, so she will never respect you.