I dont want to lose her again

[Jankers]

so I use to have this girlfriend, who I loved more then I knew I could. While we were dating I hit a really hard patch in my life. No job, no car, kicked out of home living at her parents house my only possesions in a suitcase. She was supporting me for a while. One day it all became to much and I knew she deserved better then what I was. I couldnt get my life sorted out while I was with her. One day during a fight I ended knowing I wasnt good enoigh for her. For three months she would not talk to me. In that time I got a job and found somewhere to live anf was really sorting myself out. We started hanging out again but I was to late and I hurt her to bad. A few months later she was with someone else. A few years passed, I had a few other girlfriends, fell in love, broke up again but she always stayed in the thoughts.
After years I feel I have a chance to be with her again. She has broken up with her ex and we have been hanging out a little bit. She is just as amazing as I remembered and we still get on so well but her best friend just asked her out and they are sort of dating. While i dont want to get between them and tear that apart I feel if I dont do something I may not get another chance like this. I dont know if I can chase her and walk away with nothing again. It broke my heart last time and im really scared to try. I want to but im scared. But I just cant walk away. I dont know what advice im hoping for but your thoughts on what I should do would be appreciated. Thank you for reading =)

[Hotaru]

Well, on one hand, if you never try you'll never know.

However, it seems to me like she's already moved on. It's been years and if she hasn't given you any indication that she wants to try again, it might be better to cut contact if that's what it takes to move on.

[BBTimeless]

Well, on one hand, if you never try you'll never know.

However, it seems to me like she's already moved on. It's been years and if she hasn't given you any indication that she wants to try again, it might be better to cut contact if that's what it takes to move on.

I agree with Hotaru, you owe it to yourself to be happy and as long as you are attached to someone who is unavailable it will be tough.