Neither of you can communicate well about what you want.
we had a talk and she asked "where do you see the 2 of us going". So, after she asked that, I got lost in my mind and started saying random things. Took a little walk to help me calm down. I told her "dont do this. I dont wanna loose you." She said "you wont loose me".
This^ whole exchange is just bizarre. Why would you go from "where do you see the 2 of us going" to "dont do this. I dont wanna loose you."
She is asking for clarification from you about your relationship. Why didn't you just answer her telling her what you want? If you don't know what you want, then you should tell her so. It's an answer at least and lets her decide if she wants to invest in someone undecided.
Sounds to me like you are unsure and don't want to admit this to her b/c you think she will walk. That's not fair. If that's not the case, then you better be clear real quick or you *will* lose her. People don't like to be left hanging.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh