Great Guy but Gay Vibes?

[Boisdevie]

I have just seen some people I know marry and have kids with someone only to find out years later that they were interested in the same sex so I wanted to get some opinions.

Since you've only just met the guy isn't it just a teeny tiny bit too early to be worrying about 'what if we get married and then have kids and then he tells mem he's gay'. Just spend time with the guy and see how it goes. Maybe you can end up sharing moisturiser.

[bcgirl]

Would it be a deal breaker if he is bisexual? He's had gfs before so he most likely isn't full-blown gay. If he is showing interest in you, what's the big deal? I have a guy friend who is a total metrosexual but loves women. He's fun to go shopping with.
Why do you say you have a "gut feeling" that he's gay?
Why not try this.. Ask him what he thinks of "Ryan gosling" and see if his eyes light up with excitement. Then ask him which movie he prefers... "Drive" or "the notebook".
Personally, I like a man who's slightlier "manlier" than I

[FlaCooln]

Gay men generally don't pursue women. I don't think you have anything to worry about unless some of these things annoy you.

thanks to urbandictionary.com

You might be "metrosexual" if:

1. You just can't walk past a Banana Republic store without making a purchase.

2. You own 20 pairs of shoes, half a dozen pairs of sunglasses, just as many watches and you carry a man-purse.

3. You see a stylist instead of a barber, because barbers don't do highlights.

4. You can make her lamb shanks and risotto for dinner and Eggs Benedict for breakfast... all from scratch.

5. You only wear Calvin Klein boxer-briefs.

6. You shave more than just your face. You also exfoliate and moisturize.

7. You would never, ever own a pickup truck.

8. You can't imagine a day without hair styling products.

9. You'd rather drink wine than beer... but you'll find out what estate and vintage first.

10. Despite being flattered (even proud) that gay guys hit on you, you still find the thought of actually getting intimate with another man truly repulsive.

LOL that list is HILARIOUS. It should be a test for dudes to see if they are too metro. I would say im guilty of #4, part of #6 (i use moisturizer/aftershave lotion after I shave), and #9. But, I like red wine and beer equally. I'm a foodie, so that explains 4 and 9.