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    Quote Originally Posted by abovethisall911
    Love is a pre-cursor to a relationship.Trust,honesty and respect are the bases for a relationship.Who's the blonde now?
    uhh...Arn't you blonde? lol. I would have to say you are. Trust, honesty, and respect are required for a success in a relationship. The relationship is not based on these though. I would find it pathetic to base it on these. I get trust, honesty, and respect(I GOT MORE OF IT TOO) from my freaking dog but I am not starting a relationship with them.

    If you want to find what a relationship is based on then you have to seperate a regular friendly relationship and a lovers relationship...believe me...the only thing different is the existance of sex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee
    Let's get serious now.

    Sex is the real reason people pair up.

    Whether they'd like to admit it or not.

    That's just the way we work.
    If this is true i must be broken or something. I would give anything to be with the girl i love... even to see her again. Id be happy to be with her for the rest of my life even if we never had sex. The way i see it .. you should want to have sex with someone because you love them, you shouldnt love someone just because you want sex. But like i said, maybe im broken...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stillinlove
    If this is true i must be broken or something. I would give anything to be with the girl i love... even to see her again. Id be happy to be with her for the rest of my life even if we never had sex. The way i see it .. you should want to have sex with someone because you love them, you shouldnt love someone just because you want sex. But like i said, maybe im broken...
    Maybe everyone else is broken? ..I see were you are coming from...especially now in my life.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stillinlove
    If this is true i must be broken or something. I would give anything to be with the girl i love... even to see her again. Id be happy to be with her for the rest of my life even if we never had sex. The way i see it .. you should want to have sex with someone because you love them, you shouldnt love someone just because you want sex. But like i said, maybe im broken...
    Yes, I totally agree with this.

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    I'm new around here, but just wanted to say.... if you don't think sex is important in a relationship, just ask the person who ISN'T getting as much sex as they need.

    For example, if one partner has a higher sex drive than the other one. The one who ISN'T getting enough will most definitely see sex as very important and it can become a such a critical point that it might destroy the relationship. It can even undermine trust and love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins
    What should it be based?
    it shd be based on understanding and love for one another... cos I heard of couples carry on with each other because of SEX only.. wat the.. no love involved..
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    Sex defenitely is a big part of a relationship, to me anyhow.
    But it's not everything.
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    If your sexual relationship is suffering, it definately eats into the other parts of the relationship as well, so I'd say it's a pretty big thing.

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    Sex is a big part of a relationship. However, it depends on age and what the partner is looking for in the relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by poisoncell
    it shd be based on understanding and love for one another.
    Understanding of what?. I can not visualize love so how am I going to base a relationship on it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins
    Understanding of what?. I can not visualize love so how am I going to base a relationship on it?
    You can not visualize an enitity thats non-existent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiechi
    You can not visualize an enitity thats non-existent.
    Your only helping my argument by saying that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins
    Your only helping my argument by saying that.
    No shit...?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiechi
    No shit...?
    Plunty of shit.
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