i dunno i was told by a friend that sex is about like 20% of the relationship and i am un sure about it i just want to know what you guys think of it
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09-04-05, 05:38 AM #1
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is sex a big thing in a relationship
why or why was i born into this world that is what i ask myself over and over again, for many of years i have wonder why no one under stands me then i meet you, you looked into my eyes and toke all my problem away with only one little kiss. why do i feel this way why do i feel so calm, then i know it was beause of you.
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09-04-05, 05:48 AM #2
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It depends,on a LOT of things.Who you're in a relationship with,whether or not they/you want to have sex,if you're virgins,if you're already having sex with the other person and the list goes on etc.Its as much of a big deal as you choose to make it.I find sex quite important coz to me its a physical expression of how much i love him, I'm one of these "making love" people,and its also just about as close as I can really get to my man.If one partner withholds sex there's a problem as they're obviously upset or something is bothering them.
To be honest I think sex is what you make of it but if you're afraid to be that intimate with someone (unless of course you have religious beliefs or personal/moral issues with sex) then there could be a problem.I'm paranoid about the people I meet,why are they talking to me and why can't anyone see,I just wanna live...
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09-04-05, 06:16 AM #3
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Exactly.....
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09-04-05, 07:17 AM #4
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I don't know....what else is there?
"Why are you an atheist?"
"because I paid attention in science class."
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09-04-05, 07:23 AM #5
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I don't know, I always considered it as a perk or bonus to a relationship. Its great to have both emotional and physical forms of contact within a relationship. It seems to make a tighter bond between the two.
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09-04-05, 07:32 AM #6
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thanks for your input i just gonna have to find the answer out for myself i will take your input into consideration and everything thanks if anymore has more input to put please i like to know what all you think
why or why was i born into this world that is what i ask myself over and over again, for many of years i have wonder why no one under stands me then i meet you, you looked into my eyes and toke all my problem away with only one little kiss. why do i feel this way why do i feel so calm, then i know it was beause of you.
I love you lauren
may all our hopes and dreams come true
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11-04-05, 04:33 AM #7
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i think its quite a big part. not because of the sex as such, for me and my partner its because of the closeness, the connecting. feeling close to each other and expressing love. i dunno where the 20% came from...i dont think you can say something like that, theres so many thousands of things that are part of peoples relationships, and everything plays a different part for everybody. as long as it works, does it matter what percentage it plays?
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12-04-05, 08:58 AM #8
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it is a very big part.... but u can try to underplay it......
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12-04-05, 09:03 AM #9
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...sex is only as big as you make it.
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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13-04-05, 09:35 PM #10
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sex is a part of a r/s. But a relationship shouldn't be based on sex.
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14-04-05, 12:02 AM #11
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What should it be based? Originally Posted by poisoncell
sex is a part of a r/s. But a relationship shouldn't be based on sex."Why are you an atheist?"
"because I paid attention in science class."
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14-04-05, 08:02 AM #12
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Love is a pre-cursor to a relationship.Trust,honesty and respect are the bases for a relationship.Who's the blonde now?
I'm paranoid about the people I meet,why are they talking to me and why can't anyone see,I just wanna live...
We're about as similar as two dissimilar things in a pod....
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14-04-05, 08:17 AM #13
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BURN!!!!
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14-04-05, 10:44 AM #14
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Let's get serious now.
Sex is the real reason people pair up.
Whether they'd like to admit it or not.
That's just the way we work.
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You think that is a burn? ...wow....I like you but seriously lol Originally Posted by MaRTiaL RaGe
"Why are you an atheist?"
"because I paid attention in science class."
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