Ok so me and my guy were having s*x and it was taking a long time for him to finish which was completely fine and I just kept with him and after a while he lost his erection, and I could tell he was like mortified so I didn't say anything I just gave him a blowj*b but her couldn't get it back up no matter what I did. Now this is really unusual because nothing like this has ever happened before. I felt really bad for him because he was like in tears by the end, and I get that threes nothing he could do about it. I tried telling him its fine and it doesn't make him any less of a man, and that I still love him and all of that and I meant every word, but now he like quit having sex with me. He wont even talk about it. Why is he so upset about this? What should I do do? Do I try and talk to him about it or do just leave it alone or what?