Ok so me and my gf of 3months just recently had a conversation. She's 23 I'm 21. She told me how I'm the first nice guy she's ever dated. Meaning she's used to assholes. She told me that I'm different from anyone she's ever been with. We rarely argued no petty stuff rarely happened either. We took the time to become friends before we dated. So a few days ago she made a statemett that said "I know I'm a lot to handle, and your different so if you fall for me be careful because I test people. Push them to their limits to see their true intentions" well two days later she tells me she is not ready for a relationship but doesn't want what we had before the relationship to change for now. We text still everyday things ended on a good note but I'm curious ladies if this is a test to see if I will stay and fight for her or if she truly isn't ready for that step? I've met her family already and really think she is the one. Do I stay and fight or should I cut my losses and be friendzoned?
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Also when we talk its not for long, and she usually cuts the conversation off before it can go any further. I really dont know what to believe. I really want to believe this is all a test because of how many times shes been hurt and left. It will be a week since the breakup in two days. Why would someone that cares about you, put you through something like that? Or is she really testing me to see if im man enough to put up with whatever she throws at me to be with her? or is she really truly done...[/SIZE]