Something missing in a 20 year old that would offer her vagina to a married man that could very well be her father, Marc. You might want to just take a step back and think about the muck you've just attempted to perpetuate by meeting her for lunch but what fate kept from happening. Imagine the rumour mill at work should you keep up this foolishness.
You don't say what your marital problems are but no matter what they are, they don't warrant you getting with someone who has no boundaries or ethics while you're still legally tied to your wife. Your poor judgement (IMO) if you want to get with her after you're divorced or legally separated and moved out of the marital home.
Maybe you could start another thread about whats going on in your marriage, and leave out the filler about some fluff who's been stroking your ego. Foolishness. If you do that maybe we can offer some constructive advice on how you and your spouse can get things back on track.
Last edited by Wakeup; 22-07-13 at 10:18 PM.
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“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion