First time poster here.
I appreciate taking the time tor read my post and commenting.
It's kind of a hard situation for everyone, so I'll try to be brief.
My boyfriend broke up with his ex about a year ago after 14 years of being together.
His ex was brutally murdered by a psycho about a month ago... It wasn't an accident, but rather an act of violence by a random person who is clearly mentally ill.
Ever since, my boyfriend has been very depressed about what happened. He is grieving a loss, and he's been very vocal to me and everyone how much he still loves his ex:
-During a speech at a memorial for his ex, he said his ex is the person he has loved the most in his life... I was there to hear that
-Post messages on his ex's wall saying he'll love him forever and miss him.... I can read that
-Calling me his ex's name
-Changing his fb profile pic to an image of them both
His comments hurt me, and I don't know what to do.
I have expressed to him his actions hurt me, but he stated his feelings for his ex are not related to his feelings towards me, and that he'll always love his ex and will have a space in his heart no one will take.
What do y'all think?