He flew off the handle - but was I in the wrong?

[namemyname]

He was horny, booty called you at 11PM last minute, you didn't go over to screw him, so he threw an abusive tantrum.

What more do you need to know about this douchebag?

He doesn't respect you, doesn't want to legitimately date you, and has an anger/impulse problem you want no part of.

There's a reason the Universe kept you apart...

[shortyrock]

I agree it was just for sex - which isn't something I was opposed to. I even said to him that night that if he was just looking to mess around, I'm fine with that, but just to be honest about it. THAT angered him further. That he is "legit" and "f-you if you think that". And I totally agree that if he's acting this way now, how AWFUL he must be in relationships. Maybe he thinks he wants a wife, but he sure doesn't act like it. I'm hoping things just fizzle out. I just want him to leave me alone. He showed his true colors and I want no part of that.

[IndiReloaded]

I'd be weary of someone who shows this side of themselves before you even meet.

Nothing personal T&C, just a pet peeve of mine. I'm seeing this word misused a lot lately.

war·y (wâr)
adj. war·i·er, war·i·est
1. On guard; watchful:

wea·ry (wîr)
adj. wea·ri·er, wea·ri·est
1. Physically or mentally fatigued.
2. Expressive of or prompted by fatigue: a weary smile.

[namemyname]

Good girl! I'm very proud of you! This is a time when many women decide to stick with a guy, and try and "fix" him. Good on you for realizing he's not your project, and that you deserve better. Well done.

[ninetoe1024]

Drunks do crazy things, BELIEVE me.