I work with my girlfriend (never a good idea). She's a very sociable girl and talks to everybody, already after two months three guys have asked her out, one even inviting her to France, and another 3 or 4 have proclaimed there envy of me. To her.
None of this bothers me. However, there's one musclebound guy that keeps talking to her and making comments, they aren't exactly suggestive but I feel they're heading that way.
I'm sure this all stems from a feeling if physical insecurity next to him. I just need to stop this feeling. She knows I have a problem with him but she can't avoid or not talk to him because I'm being mental.
I feel my chest get real tight and breathing get difficult when I see them talking and I'm sure I become less fun which would eventually push her to him.
She has reassured me but I've started trying to 'catch her out' a little, even though I know a jealous mind will create links where there a none based on coincidences.
Has anybody dealt with this before and have any tips on dropping these crazy thoughts and feelings. It's almost become like a physical pain the last two days.