Well, my ex girlfriend broke up with me 4 months ago. We dated for a year, it was definitely not a bad break up.
We argued quite a bit leading up to the break up, mainly because I felt like she wasn't putting in the effort, yet she was over-dedicated to her partying friends (she's 20, I'm 24 and her first relationship). I really thought she put her friends before me a lot of the time. She thought I had a problem with her friends but I really just wanted make me feel like she cared about our relationship.
Despite this I got on well with all her friends except her best girlfriend, I feel like she had it in for me. So it wasn't like I was ever jealous or controlling from my point of view.
Anyhow, after our break up I made sure she knew that I cared about her, but didn't chase her.
I found out that she had been dating this guy who was supposedly her close friend only 1-2 months (maybe even sooner) after our break up. I was good to this guy, treated him like a friend prior to this... They had a history of hooking up a few times before we dated but I assumed he was well and truly friend zoned by the time I turned up.
He was obviously keen on her the whole time...
Because he is part of her close group of friends and she is friends with all of his friends, things are officially WAY too messed up... I could handle her rebounding with a new guy she's met but this feels like a betrayal of trust.
Can this still be considered a rebound relationship?? She was crying on the phone with me 2 months after our break up, now I haven't heard a word since and I can't see how they could even break up considering how they both have ALL the same friends. I can't honestly say she's be better off with me considering how convenient her new relationship seems, but it hurts because I thought we had something real.
It makes me wonder, is this just a convenient rebound situation for her or could she really move on that quickly to something that appears so set up and have real feelings for this guy?