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Thread: Ex Girlfriend Keep On Contacting me?

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    Hey guys she contacted me again today asking How I am. so I told her the thing I wanted to say and she said she just wanted to check how I am and just wanted to be friends with me..

    I don't know what to do at this point. I'm being friendzoned.

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    Tell her you have no interest in friendship, and ignore all further contact. Or just ignore all further contact.

    Did you tell her to stop contacting you?
    Last edited by BackUpOrGetStng; 06-12-13 at 03:01 PM.

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    I did and she said this.

    "I understand. I'll wait for the day to come that we can talk again! And if it never comes then. I hope for you all the best and I wish u a great life. I'll still wait for your text or call whenever u'll be ready to talk to me again.. Take care"


    Man this is just weird. Now it's like she's making me feel guilty? wtf.


    Quote Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng View Post
    Tell her you have no interest in friendship, and ignore all further contact. Or just ignore all further contact.

    Did you tell her to stop contacting you?

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    Just text her saying "were not gonna be friends, i have enough friends and i dont need exes in my life.. take care

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    I just didn't respond to her anymore.. It's just really weird. why she wanted to be friends so badly? Seems like she still wants me in her life but just doesn't want to commit to me..

    I think when she finds someone I will be forgotten and Now she like put the blame on me because I didn't want to talk to her.


    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    Just text her saying "were not gonna be friends, i have enough friends and i dont need exes in my life.. take care

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    She just wants the attention. Prob wondering y your not begging her back.. leave her off shes a moron. Anyone with half a brain knows you need no contact after a breakup and whats the point being friends if theres no reason to be (such as kids)

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    Or she just a selfish human being? and just contacting me for her own good?


    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    She just wants the attention. Prob wondering y your not begging her back.. leave her off shes a moron. Anyone with half a brain knows you need no contact after a breakup and whats the point being friends if theres no reason to be (such as kids)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chris21422 View Post
    I just didn't respond to her anymore.. It's just really weird. why she wanted to be friends so badly? Seems like she still wants me in her life but just doesn't want to commit to me..

    I think when she finds someone I will be forgotten

    dude, Im in in the Same boat. I'm trying HARD to be strong not to text mine back, cause I also feel like he's "playing the field" to see if. he can find something concrete and forget about me...so I don't respond.. not until I see actions I won't put myself up for more heartache.

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    Does he still contacting you?

    Quote Originally Posted by ju1ie View Post
    dude, Im in in the Same boat. I'm trying HARD to be strong not to text mine back, cause I also feel like he's "playing the field" to see if. he can find something concrete and forget about me...so I don't respond.. not until I see actions I won't put myself up for more heartache.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chris21422 View Post
    Does he still contacting you?
    Yup Yup. if I dwell on it too MUCH, I'll end up texting him. so instead of me texting him back, I'm at the gym instead running out my frustrations and anxiety.

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    This girl is probably not done contacting you, but as Julie pointed out, she's only interested in making sure you're there as a safety net and to make moving on easier for her.

    Anyway, you've done your part. Now start moving on.

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