For those of you who know my situation, I'd really like to know what the deal with this past weekend was, as I am very confused. I just want to know what some of you all will take from this situation, particularly men.
This past Saturday, I went out with a couple of girl friends of mine. It was a normal night and I was having a good time. Earlier that day, I texted my friend (the guy who I have been seeing and having issues with) earlier that day and asked if he wanted to attend a Christmas get together with me. He never replied because he is still made. Over what? I'm still unsure, besides the fact that I blocked him on my phone last week. I only invited him to see what he would say. I know it was stupid of me since I'm supposed to be letting him go. My friend who was throwing the party ended up canceling, so we all decided to go out that night instead.
While at this club/lounge, I left the bar and I felt someone behind me as if I was being watched or something and when I looked, it was my guy. He had a smirk on his face and I was determined not to make my night about him, so I just smiled( I couldn't help it, he looked really good) and I also looked sort of surprised, I'm sure. He looked like he wanted to say something but again, my night wasn't about him so I just kept walking with my girl friends. I went to the dance floor for a while and when I left off the dance floor, I seen him standing in the lounge area again. I walked past him again and this time, he followed me and sort of grabbed me from behind and asked why was I acting like I didn't know what it was between us. At this time, I had an attitude because I felt as if he already know why I wasn't going out my way to be all over his penis. I said, well you were ignoring me this past week or did you forget? He never really responded, he just started pulling me closer to him and hugging all over me and holding my hand and throughout the night, he kept coming up to me, sitting with me in the lounge and basically following me around like a little puppy.
One of my friends, who never met him said, wow, he is all under you. He must really like you and that he wasn't even dancing with other girls or anything, even when I wasn't in the same area as him. He was being so sweet that night.
He came to my house instead and we didn't do anything that night. I only gave him a blow job while I rode with him to my house. He left shortly after arriving to my place. We ended up getting into it because I was still hurt over him ignoring me. He said that he is tired of me talking crazy to him and then apologizing for it. I said that I was tired of apologizing about everything period. I told him that I was sick of tired of him ruining my nights.
Not surprisingly, he is not talking to me all over again. Why was he being so sweet and all over me in the lounge and then flipped the script later on and is now ignoring me? Was it because I looked nice and he got excited all over again? Why was he all over me only to act like an asshole all over again. I am really confused at this point.