Originally Posted by
anastasis
And that's exactly what you need to do--be a jerk and inconsiderate.
That's where you're getting all screwed up.
I'll make it easy for you--you offer it to no extent at all.
Both are irrelevant. Think she cares about your 'emotional issues'?
Ok, fine. Have it your way. Don't listen to me. But when it is revealed that you are her very good 'guy friend', don't say I didn't warn you. She'll show up with her boyfriend, give you a hug, and want to introduce you to her fiance.
When you've been married for at least one year to a woman, then you might start to consider becoming her listening ear (as long as it's not over 5 minutes. That's it. 5 minutes. Tops.). Until then, you don't care. No, you didn't listen to what I just said. I just said you DON'T care. ....no, you're still not getting it. I said....YOU. DON'T. CARE!
You're that poor little love sick fool who ain't gonna get it till you're 45.
Don't let her vamp ya, brother. Have some dignity. Do it for the worldwide man brotherhood.
Now go out there and get a real woman. Stop waisting your time on this petty nonsense for the love of decency. You sound like a sniveling little Emo for crying out loud. Grow a beard, put on your steel toed man boots and hard hat and kick these little useless trolips out of your way.
The reason you don't care about her emotional issues is because her emotional issues are trivial pursuits that she can yap to her girl friends about over tea and cookies. If you belittle yourself to the point of one of her triffles, she will see you as being on the level of her trifles. She'll be your trifle buddy. Aren't you proud of yourself? Not only are you a trifle buddy, you're a TEXT ONLY trifle buddy! Not only are you squarely in the friend zone, you're in the TEXT ONLY friend zone!
This is YOUR life!
This is YOUR time!
This is YOUR future!
This is YOUR love!
If you don't stand up and DEMAND to be a man, the world will walk right over you.
Stand up and roar! If you don't do it now, when will you?
These are your golden man years. Do not waiste them on these flitting social butterflys and users.
If you never get anything you ever wanted out of life, if nothing ever works, and if love flees from you like a dream, at least you will have kept your dignity and manhood. At least you would have been true to yourself. And that's the measure of a man.
You don't get it: this is WAR. Women have declared culture war on men in a direct assault of your manhood and soul.
You will either win that war or lose that war. And being in a relationship doesn't mean you won the war. It may in fact mean you lost it.
Every last lady's man who ever walked upon this earth has known these two thing about himself: 1) He is a woman's intellectal SUPERIOR; 2) He is a woman's authoritative SUPERIOR.
That's right. And I do not care if the winds of hell itself blow against those two truths, never doubt them for one second. You are not the Moon. You are the Sun. And you are as SUPERIOR to a woman as the light of the Sun is superior to that of the Moon. Until that idea becomes your living reality, you are not going to be a man. The day it does is the day you become a Man.
This isn't about being politically correct. It's about KNOWING what and who you are in accordance with the laws of nature. And Nature isn't politically correct. Neither should you be. I care not about how much the bloody moons may try to eclipse your Sun, do fight with all force and manhood against this universal Lie. No matter how much you may be despised, you will never allow yourself to lower yourself from your right to manhood ever again. Never again will you be put in a corner. Never again will you be a text buddy. Never, never, never again will you be shuffled off to any woman's 'friend zone'. You were not born to be in the friend zone. You were born to be in the Lover zone. There is no 'trying' to be confident. You either KNOW what you are, or you don't. Confidence is a byproduct of Understanding. You will glow with Confidence when you understand the Truth.
If the Moon wanted another Moon, she wouldn't attract the light of the Sun. You are a King. Walk like one. Talk like one. And BE one! And if any woman attempts to usurp your power and authority, do bind her and blind her with all the wrath and strategy of a Despot until she is bound trembling and wholly within your power. There is no female witchcraft conjured upon earth that can stand before a Sun in his Strength. None. In such a state, you are in fact invincible.