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    Need help. Girl chilling with another guy Issues.

    Hey everyone, so straight to the point. Me and my ex broke up after being with each other for 4 years, after the break up she got asked out a lot etc, she liked this one guy a lot and they had chemistry for a little bit. (Rebound Relationship) Everyone knows Rebound Relationships rarely last, this was about 2 months ago, at first she had really strong feelings for him, as time went on she would say that other things like, yea i still like him but not as much as i used to, to eventually now.. she says they are just friends and she will never like him like she did or date him. Anyway just recently we have agreed to try to fix us however she really didn't have much friends while we were together, the friends she had were girlfriends and they eventually started to flirt with me and she stopped hanging with them, so her only friend was basically me, so we want to fix us however she still wants to chill with this one guy, what should i do? Do you all think its ok to let her chill with him? While we were together she never lied or cheated or anything, she is loyal, the thing is i never know what could happen in the future, she might get feelings for him again or maybe not? I don't want to hold her back and have no friends or something, but at the same time i just don't think its right for her to be chilling with him. Should i try to fix things and let her chill with whoever she wants and trust? Or should i just move on?

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    Why can't she chill with you. You ARE the BOY-FRIEND. Ex flings and ex-boyfriends are dangerous.

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    are u sure u want to fix this up for both of u....or just for her coz she doesnt have any frndz?

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    If this guy didn't exist while you were dating, I feel like that's pretty sketchy. It's different if it's like a long-term male friend that's always been there (though i'm sure they can be dangerous too). If you love her than I guess you could just see how it goes? If you aren't sure than just tell her no

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