my ex husband loves this groupie girlfriend?

[samantha11]

OK, fine. But the fact remains that he's currently enjoying her company. And from your description, they are certainly birds of a feather.....and you know what they say about 'birds of a feather'.

So you mean he loves her and will marry her? and will stop womanizing for her? someone who is immature and hoeish!

[basilandthyme]

Based on your own standards, it's quite reasonable that he'd want to marry someone who's "immature and hoeish". After all, this describes your ex and you're still hung up on him.

If anyone can understand his attraction to someone like this, it should be you.

[chinagirl]

Probably does not love her. He seem to be narcissistic and is capable of only loving himself. He cannot even love his own child for crying out loud! Not worth your love and tears!

[samantha11]

Probably does not love her. He seem to be narcissistic and is capable of only loving himself. He cannot even love his own child for crying out loud! Not worth your love and tears!

then why is he with her or hanging out with her? what kind of person you think she is?

[chinagirl]

She is the way you think she is and your husband is the way you think he is and obsessing over this will not change them. People can say whatever opinions they have of your ex and her lover and it will not make any difference in your head. You need to get off this thread and stop responding and pay attention to your child. If you can't do that, get professional help because you clearly need one to get over your obsession. Just remember, time will heal all wounds, but only if you allow it.

[basilandthyme]

then why is he with her or hanging out with her? what kind of person you think she is?

I disagree with the others about him not loving her. His love for her is the same type of fvcked up love you hold for him.

You see, people are judging his ability to love by their own standards of reasonable behaviour. What they aren't recognising is that there are many different types of love....and yes, some of those types of love are fvcked up.

You see,those same people who say that he can't possibly love her are probably the same ones who will say that you can't possibly love him. That your feelings are more about lonliness and lack of self esteem. But you know that everyone else is wrong and that you love him regardless of how much of a whore and slut he is.....therefore, he loves her no matter how much of a whore and slut she is.

[TablesandChairs]

Firstly, the fact that you still care and know the inside and out of his personal life is the real problem here. You're divorced. He's an ex. Remember why he's an ex? Because he's a lousy cheat. A crap husband. A crap father. While you're following his life obsessively, you're stunting your chances of created a new life of your own. You don't need that kind of drama...and any woman who ends up with him will undoubtedly have to share him with numerous others.