It seems like my boyfriend's brother and his sister in law are tearing me and his relationship apart. Everytime me and my boyfriend get into an argument, it always deals with the topic of his brother and sister in law. I recently moved out from there, because they both started acting shady towards me and I was not comfortable. The other reason was because I wanted my own place anyways. SO the other night me and him get into an argument and he says "you have a problem with my sister in law and the boys (her kids) dont you? Just admit it" of course im not going to say I have a problem with her when she was the one throwing shade towards me (read my other posts, long story). He's been trying to figure out why I moved out into my own place (he still lives with his brother helping them with rent). Whenever I was living with them, my boyfriend would ask me for amounts of money. Because whatever rent money he couldnt come up with, I helped. But no more of that, it was stressing me out. I felt that his brother and sis in law were using him and still are. Anyways, he says its odd that I dont have any issues talking to his aunts and uncles, but dont talk to his bro and sis "as much." His whole family is divided (aunts/uncles) and no one visits his brother/sis in law because I think something happened between all of them. But I am not trying to get caught in the middle of that. I am just tired of him assuring me that I need to get in good with his bro and sis in law when i tried and clearly it did not work. We are just DATING not even MARRIED. I'm trying to enjoy the dating aspect but his brother and sis in law are somehow the focal point. What should I do??