Girlfriend ditched me to get drunk

[Clicker]

Hello there, So my lovely little lady friend and i had plans yesterday. We used to see eachother almost every night of the week until i moved back to my parents house and she doesn't drive so it's a pretty far commute for her now. Therefore we only really have the weekends to spend together. Anyway, i work outside and it was raining pretty hard so we were going to work a half day. I told her it would probably be the case the night before and we should meet up right after my work. She agreed, but then after my work yesterday i called her asking if she was ready to get picked up. She asked me if it was cool if she hung out with some people from school for a bit. I said yeah that sounds good when will you be done? She said 4 ( knowing her i knew it would probably be a little later which i was fine with) But then i texted her around 730 asking what was up? and she said she was at a pub. She didn't seam she wanted to hang out with me honestly. Which pissed me off ( especially cause this is like the 3rd time in a few months this has happened.) So then today i don't hear from her until about noon when i texted her asking if she was ok? She said yeah shes on the train going home. Asking if she could call me. I was riding my bicycle so after i called her after and she said sorry. But it didn't seam like she gave a shit and i asked where she went and she said a bunch of pubs and i asked where she stayed and she said this girls place who went to her school. She was out super late and got super drunk. She has never hung out with these people before. Anyway i'm pissed. I know i love her and i don't want to break up with her i don't think but i hate how she does that. What should a fella do? my lady seams like she wants everything to be normal but she has done this to me quite a few times. this is probably the worst though cause it ruined my night by me waiting around. But it also ruined my night tonight cause its a mutual friends birthday but i don't want to see her cause we might fight and that would be dumb for the mutual friend so i'm not going therefore 2 long boring nights in eating candy. haha

[Wakeup]

How come you just didn't ask her where she was and went to meet her? If she said no to that, then I'd be calling that a red flag.

[Clicker]

How come you just didn't ask her where she was and went to meet her? If she said no to that, then I'd be calling that a red flag.

I didn't really feel like going out with random people from her school. Also there is a reason i had to move back in with my parents, cause i need to save money. I owed a lot of taxes so now i'm trying to catch up. That's why i thought she could go out for a bit and then come back to my house and if she really wanted we could have a couple drinks here. I did ask her where she was and she just said i'm at a pub sorry. I asked what her plan was and she ignored me for like an hour so i just said goodnight and she said it back

[michelle23]

It sounds like shes lost interest in you.