do guys know when they are rebounding

**toshi** · 31-10-10, 12:54 AM

you seem to be unstable right now so please don't rush it. think about what your new guy will think. in the end you end up hurting a lot of people and it's not a good thing.

**ginastar** · 31-10-10, 01:06 AM

true, i wouldnt want to be in a rebound myself. but how long do typical rebounds last anyway?

**toshi** · 31-10-10, 01:31 AM

you mean the typical not-so-serious fling? weeks usually, a month at most. you're only looking for a companion at that state anyway. chances are, you still get to meet a lot of people, more better than the current fling, so sticking to one is just off the track.

**ginastar** · 31-10-10, 01:54 AM

oh ok so my ex is prob not in a rebound since its been little over 2 months?

**toshi** · 31-10-10, 02:03 AM

"it seems like its serious..."

this just shows that he really wanted this to work because he is exerting effort.

**ginastar** · 31-10-10, 02:05 AM

well people say rebounds are serious at first (spending lots of time together) and that the rebounder typically thinks he/she likes the new person....but over time it falls apart cause the rebounder wasnt over the ex. do u disagree with that? have u experienced this? are u a male or female?

**toshi** · 31-10-10, 02:19 AM

that's not usually the case since there are some people that can easily move on. i'm a guy and yes, i've had had my share of rebound "flings" before because i usually get lonely. but i have to admit, there came to a point that i deeply fell in love with a girl but i have to stop 'cause it'll be unfair for her if she knew i just got out of a really bad relationship. i knew i have to fix myself first before looking for someone new.

**ginastar** · 31-10-10, 02:35 AM

well i do know that he wasnt able to move on very easily cause at first he was trying to talk to me and her at the same time until i found out about the girl i stopped contact with him completely . so u feel deeply in love with a rebound? and why would you let that go? if i feel in love i wouldnt let it go...if it was my choice. what did u need to fix?

**toshi** · 31-10-10, 03:01 AM

well, let's just say i don't wanna rely my happiness on a person at the moment. people come and go.

**toshi** · 31-10-10, 03:07 AM

you should look for happiness and not get stuck in the past, chere.

**ginastar** · 31-10-10, 03:21 AM

ohh i understand. but then i do think u prob werent in love if u let her go so easily

**toshi** · 31-10-10, 03:30 AM

i do hope that's the case.

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