APIMAN: Consider letting her go! You already showed her some interest in getting to know her better, she has the ball. If she wants to carry on with getting to know you in anyway shape or form(meaning just friends), she will throw the ball back. I am not stating that you are planning to keep trying to contact her but, you have done your part, now give her a chance to do hers! If she does not respond, then your answer is she has nothing she "wants" to offer you.
IceQueen: Her Indifference to him, may "seem" like her unconditional love for him, to him. I don't have a PHD, so I will not preach my concept of love anymore to you....as it seems to been all twisted quite possibly by words I chose to use. All I can say is, My "vision" of love is not materialized like most peoples. When I say needs I am referring to things they may not even know they need.
Impossible is a word only to be found in the dictionary of fools.
Napoleon I