Look, not that it matters, but I would have had sex with him last night were we prepared. We both agreed that we weren't comfortable with only one form of reliable BC and since it will be three weeks until I'm on it, and week from them until it is effective, until then, using only a condom is not ok with either of us.
Which is part of the reason I'm pissed. He's being a jerk, even though I'm doing what I can. Not only is my reason plausible, it's the truth.