will boyfriend get upset?

[lastwish]

I have a guyfriend who invited me to go to prom with him. It's just a friends have fun thing. I also have a boyfriend (me and my boyfriend are already out of high school). I just want to go to prom again because its so fun. Do you think my boyfriend will get upset if I go to prom with my guyfriend? I know he will let me and say "have fun!" but I still don't want him to get upset inside. So, whats the best way to let him know.

[vashti]

Isn't prom for high school kids?

I think lots of boyfriends would be upset about this. After all, it would be a DATE. Wouldn't you be just a little bit bothered if he did this?

[Mish]

Do you think my boyfriend will get upset if I go to prom with my guyfriend?

Yes

Yes he would

[Only-virgins]

I would be pissed.

[1averagejoe]

Agreed...he may try to be nice and say sure and seem like it doesn't bother him. But there's no doubt in my mind it will bother him.

[Illusional]

Isn't prom for high school kids?

I think lots of boyfriends would be upset about this. After all, it would be a DATE. Wouldn't you be just a little bit bothered if he did this?

you're so old fashioned... i would my girl friend go to this sorta event "because" it's only a friend thing. don't you remember going to prom with a friend back in the days who was only a friend?? the type of friend that you would never sleep with, even if you were hammered??

secondly a prom isn't really a date. it's a social event, a dinner with some dancing and awards and what not. that's all!!! the after party is a different story and i think the bf might want to be there. shit i would think the gf would want her bf to be there, but regardless, i'm a trusting bf so i would definitely let you have some fun.

raverboy

[Only-virgins]

don't you remember going to prom with a friend back in the days who was only a friend?? the type of friend that you would never sleep with, even if you were hammered??

No.


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[anachronistic]

Ask the poor son of a bitch. Why are you asking us?

[vashti]

you're so old fashioned... i would my girl friend go to this sorta event "because" it's only a friend thing. don't you remember going to prom with a friend back in the days who was only a friend?? the type of friend that you would never sleep with, even if you were hammered??

secondly a prom isn't really a date. it's a social event, a dinner with some dancing and awards and what not. that's all!!! the after party is a different story and i think the bf might want to be there. shit i would think the gf would want her bf to be there, but regardless, i'm a trusting bf so i would definitely let you have some fun.

raverboy

I didn't go to prom. I thought I was way too cool.

I consider it a date when a boy goes with a girl, and I bet this boy has a crush on this girl. Otherwise he could go alone.

[misombra]

i didn't go to prom mostly because i didn't make it to my senior year aaaaaaaaaaajajaaaa. i went to one homecoming and it sucked so bad. never had the desire to do it again.

[Illusional]

haha all you stuck up people who couldn't have fun in high school. yeah i went to prom and winterball or whatever they call it in your area...

for my senior year, i went with my friend because the girl that i wanted to take was busy. yes, i was interested in this girl, however things turned sour so i needed a date because i had paid for bids. so i went with my friend and i ended up having more fun and what not. she had a bf at the time and he was cool with it. we didn't end up at a hotel party or anything crazy.. just a chillaxed night with a group of friends.

raverboy

[Gigabitch]

Help him find another date- you should not go to prom with this guy.

[gHEXjt]

It's not cool at all.

[UnderTheRose]

Yeah...There may be a lot of guys that genuinely would be okay with that, but personally, and I think most guys, would not be okay with it.I personally would consider something like that a date...Anytime I question if I should do something or not, I think, how would I feel if she did the same thing to me?You should do that as well, how would you feel if he went with another girl?

[lastwish]

I've just asked him through online chat. Here's how it went:

Me:Hey, do you want to go with me to a friend's prom?
Him: Prom? No thanks.
Me: Ok, so you don't mind if I go with my friend?
HIm: Why would I?
Me: He's a guy friend.
Him: So?
Me: Ok, I didn't think you would mind. You're so sweet!

so...from that, we talked about other things.

I guess he didn't mind at all. right?