She Says She Needs A Break....confused.....please read..

[Bill mosley]

Um, I guess that depends on whether you're cool with your girlfriend dating other guys.

If you accept it now, she's not going back to exclusivity.

well its hard but yet i want to give her space and show her i care and not be all over whelming yet at the same time i don't want her to drag me around so its hard =(

[Bill mosley]

I mean I care alot for her and want her to be happy you know and not be all mad that she wants space and what not, but do you think if I give this to her will she ever come around, and I even asked her before when we talked when all this came out I said if were done were done tell me and she said I don't know the future if things dont work out yes...if they then we will be happy again? just sucks I am not going to be sleeping around with anyone I care for her, and don't want to be like everyone else she has dated.

[Doc Durian]

I mean I care alot for her and want her to be happy you know and not be all mad that she wants space and what not, but do you think if I give this to her will she ever come around, and I even asked her before when we talked when all this came out I said if were done were done tell me and she said I don't know the future if things dont work out yes...if they then we will be happy again? just sucks I am not going to be sleeping around with anyone I care for her, and don't want to be like everyone else she has dated.

You've said more than enough, mate.

If you want to be a doormat for the rest of your life with her, and that's even a big if, if she'll come back to you.... well then stay exactly where you are and do nothing.

[Yggdrasil]

thank you, but why the sudden change...

Never try to understand women or to make sense of it. Doesn't work.

and why is still keeping me around, is it something i did? is it my job?

Two words: safety net.

Go find yourself a decent gall bud.

She ain't worth it.