Over-Analyzing

[XPRabbit]

If a woman isn't attracted to someone who is overweight, does that necessarily make her shallow? Are you saying a woman shouldn't be concerned with wanting a partner that takes care of himself physically by exercising regularly and not over-eating?

lol i gained from under eating (i can explain)^.^
and it's not shallow really, physical attraction is physical attraction, and i never was picky about my partners weight i fall in love in odd patterns lol.

I said it before, i am loosing weight for me, if i get a girl before or after doesn't matter to me, love is love and i hope it's for the right reasons.

[starbuck]

lol i gained from under eating (i can explain)^.^
and it's not shallow really, physical attraction is physical attraction, and i never was picky about my partners weight i fall in love in odd patterns lol.

I said it before, i am loosing weight for me, if i get a girl before or after doesn't matter to me, love is love and i hope it's for the right reasons.

I didn't mean you personally, XP. I was just countering the blanket claim that "most women were shallow."

And you bring up a good point, there are certainly people out there who have had the battle with bulge for other reasons besides over-eating, like thyroid problems or medication.

[XPRabbit]

well i think i would be right to assume everyone is pretty much shallow to an extent. i mean some people might be able to get over any lack of physical attraction, but i think the shallow judgments are there to begin with.

[shh!]

I see LOTS of women with heavy men.

[doppelgaenger]

I see LOTS of women with heavy men.

Yeah no kidding. And besides when men get older, they tend to get bigger; beer belly, man boobs, saggy butt cheeks, the whole nine yards.

[shh!]

American men are actually fatter overall than American women... I think we should just give up cooking for them.

[XPRabbit]

American men are actually fatter overall than American women... I think we should just give up cooking for them.

^.^ i wouldn't mind that... I cook ^.^