Girls do you ever feel like a guy?

[ecojeanne]

I think it's a bit extreme to have half of a house yours and the other your partners, not to mention selfish and noncommittal. You've moved in together as PARTNERS. Sure you need your own space every once in a while, but there is no long term cohesion in such living arrangements.

And I've never felt like a guy ... I'm around enough guys to feel very womanly. I do the housework, washing, I also open my own jars, fix my own electrical equipment and change lightbulbs. There's no female work or male work, it's just things to get done.

ye i totally agree its things to get done......i'm not saying i dont things at all....i'm just not the type to do it when most people would get it done...if ya know what i mean

do you really think it's selfish? he was happy with it....he was excited about having his own computer room......don't get me wrong housework has to get done of course....i get a cleaner in every month to help me clean the house....we turn up the music loud and dance around cleaning....but i'm so not into cleaning and cooking and make up etc etc

i get more excited about work and going out

if someone else enjoys doing it whats the harm as long as there is a balance?

[starbuck]

Hey if it works for you, Eco, that's all that matters. Couples don't always have to be joined at the hip. You're still in the same house, anyway. It's not like one of you sleeps out in the garage.

[1averagejoe]

I've always wondered about sleeping in the same bed...I'm a crazy sleeper and I like my space to roll around. I think we should go back to the "I love lucy" two beds in a room.

Of course push the beds together when we want to get close or wild.

[Cain]

I'm not sure how I'd feel about sleeping in a separate room or bed. I like to cuddle. I like to hold the girl I'm with. When my ex and I would fall asleep, she'd fall asleep in my arms. I liked that.

[shh!]

I've always wondered about sleeping in the same bed...I'm a crazy sleeper and I like my space to roll around. I think we should go back to the "I love lucy" two beds in a room.

Of course push the beds together when we want to get close or wild.

That's a good plan.

In Israel, most of the hotels do this. (Two twin beds pushed together with one bedspread covering both.) My daughter and I had a good laugh about it when she jumped on the bed and nearly fell through the center.

[ecojeanne]

I've always wondered about sleeping in the same bed...I'm a crazy sleeper and I like my space to roll around. I think we should go back to the "I love lucy" two beds in a room.

Of course push the beds together when we want to get close or wild.

i like it! thats another option

[Kromat]

I'm not sure how I'd feel about sleeping in a separate room or bed. I like to cuddle. I like to hold the girl I'm with. When my ex and I would fall asleep, she'd fall asleep in my arms. I liked that.

For me, I'd like it, If I sleep in separate rooms during the week, so there's no interruptions when I'm trying to get up for work, and on Friday & Saturday with her because it really wouldn't matter how much I slept and be nice to get that comfort.

P.S. That how I'd like it to happen, but who know, If it will

[1averagejoe]

I think if I'm sleeping in the same bed...I'm going to NEED a King Size.

[DeTroit_4Win]

I feel like a guy...

[psydex]

I absolutely LUV cleaning and cooking... maybe that means im subliminally gay [hahaha].. HATE..and i mean HATE ironing though... as well as washing up... its just a chore that has to be done though...
i get alot of comments about the fact i enjoy cooking and cleaning, some of my m8's have even said i need to get a gf so i dont have to, but my responce is; nothing will change she can iron 4 me, i'll happily clean & cook. its all about 2way give and take, even better if [for example] wor lass doesnt mind ironing, but isnt a very good, or perhaps doesnt enjoy, cooking.

regards sleepin arrangements.. i no im really bad to share a bed with, i dont no why, but more often than not i end up covers and pillows all over the place when i wake up.. so im guessing laying next to me thrashing about in a state of unconsiousness is probably not that enjoyable [amd im a reeeeeaaallllly heavy sleeper so no1 can wake me up!]

[Lipp]

I don't mind it much, cooking's quite fun though I usually only bother to learn recipes if I'm cooking for others as well, and while cleaning isn't exactly enjoyable it works as a sort of anti-depressant. If I feel down I grab my mp3 and clean stuff up, and then it wears off.

Also I like to dance to music while waiting for the cooking to finish, the kitchen floor rocks.