How do you girls feel about someone you just met

[Steven715]

hello all i was prompted to post this after reeding a thread a little while ago about gys falling in love easier. This is not the same thing but got me thinking on a simmiler levle of what is happening with me. Any way hears a short story.
just met a girl on the internet have not yet met her face to face but plan to soon! niver have we talked on the phone was always texting and now it is just msn we have sort of been seeing eachother online since May. What i am asking is i cant wait for her to be online so i can talk to her i was wondering if it is the same for girls. We dont get to talk that oftern as she works in the eavenings and when she does come online it is only like for 30 minutes but she always says at the end when she has to go is "Have enjoyed chatting with you" etc
So are you girls more harder than men like me or ... Thanks for taking the time to read this and thanks for any posts steve

[Gigabitch]

Yes, Steven, we can get quite wound up over you big hairy apes. God knows why, LOL!

I can't believe you still haven't even called this girl. You know your spelling is atrocious, and she still likes you (I've said this before). She must be either functionally illiterate or actually digs you.

Call her up! What the hell?

[Steven715]

Lol can i ask by what you mean by digs me? i think that you are right on she likes me as i am a very insacure persone and she has been so patent with me i thort that i had messed things up big time like twice but she was cool about it i can't tell you how pleased that had made me! Now the problem with calling her is that she now has no mobile phone now and i have no number to call her on but at least we are now starting to plan things. so we shall see what happens! Thanks for that giga

[Gigabitch]

dig v 1. to like. ("I dig your new shirt.") 2. to support an action. ("You want to go to a movie? I can dig it.") 3. to understand. ("I have the gun, therefore you do what I say. Dig?") hear understand agreement (statements of) like

[Ellynn]

Its always exciting to actually have a conversation on the net with someone who isn't a complete pervert/@sshole. So, when I find a guy I enjoy talking to and share common interest, yeah of course I get interested.


I think she is interested. Anyways, Have you seen a pic of her? ASK HER FOR HER NUMBER OR GIVE HER YOURS! Then, Why not give her a call sometime or have her call you? Once you get comfy with that, try meeting in a public place. If your worried, bring a friend and have her bring a friend also. Honestly I have always had the best luck just talking one on one. But, do it in a public place!

What have you got to lose?

[Steven715]

Firstley i have sent a couple of pics of me and she has done the same and yes she does have my number.
Looks like what giga is saying she is calling the shots whitch i dont mind be nice that things went a bit quicker that is all

[Steven715]

Add: Ok i found out what dig means basicley dig = Likes so that is all good!
Add2: sorry that was soposed to be an edit but it decided to add it insted

[Gigabitch]

So this is the same girl you've liked for at least several weeks, right?

I thik you need to find some way to impress her, so she'll want to meet you.

[Steven715]

Yeah been messanging i sopose is the right word since May 5th i personley i realey like her from what we have talked i realey want to meet as i think that it will change alot like i can get out what i want to say better in person than i can through wrighting if you know what i mean i have difficualty on her as well. I think i need some of them pancakes lol

[Gigabitch]

Offer her pancakes! Tell her you want to take her out for sticky pancakes and she's making a terrible mistake if she hesitates one more day!

I hope she's as good as she seems- you know, single and all. Not crazy. All that good stuff.

[Steven715]

Yeah i think that she might be but me being a pesermist it is in the back of my mind that there might be but i beleve that she is like me looking for love as it is that i realey need now and i know that as i have been planning this for a long while. I have sent her an e-mail asking about meeting up and that i cant wait to meet her etc. We have agreed to meet half way so that is good! I did say i could meet her at where she lives incase money for petrol was an issue! Thanks for talking to me about this you are the only people who i can talk to!

[Gigabitch]

If she's nervous about meeting someone she met online (+1 for sanity), it's understandable she's taking so long.

Don't try to be alone with her on your first meeting/ date. She'll get scared. Try to meet her earlier in the day rather than later, and don't forget to take a camera so you can pictures of yourselves together to remind her how much she wants to see you again.

How far apart do you live?

[Steven715]

That is a fair point i think she has met 1 or 2 people online how thay went i dont know but juging by this not very well. I would have thort that taking a camera may freek her out but i might take one and leave it in the boot and see on the day if it comes.

We live arround 160 Miles apart as far as i am conserned that is not a problem for me even the full 160 Miles I did say to her in an e-mail whitch i am still waing for a reply we could do this even on a week day i can book time off not a problem as she has 6 weeks holiday now.

I was thinking about what you said last night "I thik you need to find some way to impress her, so she'll want to meet you."
I have no idea how the hell to impress my friend let alone some one i have not yet met proppley.

Any way thank for listening and talking! It is mutch apreciated

[Steven715]

Ok after last night i did not realeise at just how bad i am to talk to (Online) and i am crap to say the least. I had no idea what to talk about. It i no wonder that she dont want to meet me what the hell can i do about this i feel worse than useless i dont want to lose her i do want a chance to meet her in the least

[Gigabitch]

Are you at least doing voice chat? Can you call her or something?