So Scared?

[dolphindelight]

The thing that I find so odd is that since he's been back there he's cut off all contact with everyone.

[starbuck]

Yep, very shady. He doesn't want you checking up on him obviously. Why all the secrets?

Dolphin, in all honestly, it sounds like he's going to cheat. He's disappearing on you, and making it sound like it's nothing. Lose this guy. He sounds shady and disrespectful.

[dolphindelight]

Well he cut contact off with everyone not just me.

[starbuck]

What difference does it make that he's cutting off contact with everyone else, too? He's cut off contact with YOU and is doing something that is rightfully making you upset.

What are you going to do?

[lesa]

Are you in denial?

[IndiReloaded]

He's a cheater, sorry. Cut contact, this guy is no good.

This is not normal behaviour. The only way I would ever find this type of situation remotely okay is if you said this gal was someone he's known since childhood & is basically a sister to him. Not a stranger he's never met in person before. He's going waaaaay to much out of his way to visit this gal. This guy is playing you. Don't be his doormat.

Now, you should probably explain a bit more about yourself. B/c I am concerned for anyone that wouldn't immediately recognize just how wrong your EX bfs behaviour is.

[dolphindelight]

Well I just found out that there more than just friends. After only being at her house for 1 day he claims to be in love with her. Also he wants to pick her up and put her in her bedroom. I guess you all were right. So I sent him a text telling him that I hope he stays there. I guess it's time to be moving on.

[lesa]

Don't take that worthless man back.

[starbuck]

I'm sorry Dolphin.

At least now you can know and can move on.

[debris]

I'm sorry to hear = /

but I really hope you do well in moving on and forget that jerk.

[dolphindelight]

thank you for the kind words, im sure that even though im hurting right now. I'll one day be happy again and I'll find a wonderful man to share my life with.

[1averagejoe]

I'm sorry about what happened, but good riddens, he was good for nothing.

I'll find a wonderful man to share my life with.

You'll find one...there's plenty of us looking for that wonderful woman.

[dolphindelight]

I'm sorry about what happened, but good riddens, he was good for nothing.


You'll find one...there's plenty of us looking for that wonderful woman.

Aww thank you so much. That made me smile, I needed to smile today.

[dolphindelight]

Wow after telling me that he loved me and that i was his best friend. After being at her house for just 2 days (10 to go) he just sent me a text saying that he and i are just friends now. Wow it's amazing that after bieng in his life for 10 years he can blow me off completely after being with a girl for only two days. he also told m that he didnt want to be in a committed relationship but apparently hes in one now. Oh well today is the start of my new life.....

[Kromat]

I'm sorry about what happened,
but good riddens, he was good for nothing.


You'll find one...there's plenty of us looking for that wonderful woman.

Jerks like him, make me look so much better, even though I haven't
found her, I would never treat someone like he has.
Does this guy have any respect for others?
Did her looks make him leave you, or is it because he'll get
more sex with her? it seems very selfish on his part.