exboyfriend moved on too fast

[Everlovin]

I always have a new girl lined up before I break it off with the last girlfriend. I don't view it as cheating because after all, unless there are rings on our fingers we are both not off the market.

Its always the girls fault when I dump them, they either have issues or they have been behaving poorly on some level.

[Indignant]

Omg............

[bluesummer]

After dating my bf for five years, he up and got himself a new gf after three months. Did it piss me off? Sure. But it was also a reality check.....things are over, regardless of any residual feelings on either side.

So I started dating again, and it was great therapy. Helps you get over them a whole lot faster too. There's no reason to dwell on your past.

[Indignant]

kinda destroys your faith in all humanity though.

[bluesummer]

I figure things happen as they are meant to, so why dwell on it.

I ended up better off, and most people usually realize they are better off once they stop pining over the past.

[Only-virgins]

Whaaaaa! He obviously didn't love me enough because he's off banging someone else to cope with the breakup! Whaaaaa!

Sorry, had to be said.

Yea, but it is the truth.

[Lite]

kinda destroys your faith in all humanity though.

Because they don't feel about you the way you feel about them? Since when are feelings and how long it takes you to move on arbitrarily mutual?

[Illusional]

trust me, by the time that you two broke up, i'm sure that he was already on his way to starting a new relationship. towards the ending of your relationship, everything that he was telling you were lies. i hope this helps you move on faster.

raverboy

[richeanne]

Maybe he's just fronting to cover up. If he's seriously hurt. He will seriously want to move on fast and forget.