I haven't had drama in a while.

[Junket]

I'm a total drama queen, you don't even know.

[1averagejoe]

I'm a total drama queen, you don't even know.

You wear the skirt in that relationship don't you?

[Junket]

You wear the skirt in that relationship don't you?

No.

Well, 'cept on the occasion when I was on the receiving end.

Actually, I can't even remember the last time we messed around with my back door...

[IndiReloaded]

I'm a total drama queen, you don't even know.

Its not that uncommon Fras. Some people need a strong partner so that they can pull their shit & be called on it. Its the only way they can be themselves. Spineless partners need not apply.

I think I read a report someplace that married couples who survive long term have arguments that fall into 2 categories: those who argue rationally (like civilized, cold fish), and those who have short, fiery arguments (good makeup sex?).

I guess problems happen when a cold fish marries a fireball.

Anyway, the ones who don't make it are those who never argue. Something to think about anyway.

[1averagejoe]

No.

Well, 'cept on the occasion when I was on the receiving end.

Actually, I can't even remember the last time we messed around with my back door...

Wasn't really what I was referring to...lol

"Drama Queen" you need to put that under your user name.

[Mish]

Anyway, the ones who don't make it are those who never argue.

And the ones who believe relationships shouldn't have any arguments, they should be just perfect.

[Rollerderby]

No anger, no sadness.

When it's been a while I know eventually I'm going to seek it out, whether I'm aware of it or not.

Plateaus are boring.

I love the peaks and valleys.

Maybe this is because you don't take enough time out of your life to better yourself? Meh, at least you are aware that you love drama. I think it's worse when you're in denial.

[Rollerderby]

Its not that uncommon Fras. Some people need a strong partner so that they can pull their shit & be called on it. Its the only way they can be themselves. Spineless partners need not apply.

I think I read a report someplace that married couples who survive long term have arguments that fall into 2 categories: those who argue rationally (like civilized, cold fish), and those who have short, fiery arguments (good makeup sex?).

I guess problems happen when a cold fish marries a fireball.

Anyway, the ones who don't make it are those who never argue. Something to think about anyway.

And the ones who believe relationships shouldn't have any arguments, they should be just perfect.

Yup. Totally agree with that.


Arguments, when not done in a retarded child-ish way, such as name-calling and belittlement are great. I need someone who challenges me mentally to be a better person. If you don't push someone's buttons, you will never understand each other.


Maybe what fras needs is for his woman to crack her whip a bit for him. But what he probably really needs is to figure out what kind of drama he seeks and why. You know, just for personal self-awareness

[Junket]

I already know what kind, and why.

I believe Giga and Vashti do as well.

This is nothing new to the forum.

[ecojeanne]

i have to say i do enjoy a good unleashed argument, i feel so much better during and immediately after, then give it about 5 mins and then i feel terrible for what i have said. people tend to be able to get what they want out of me and so the argument ends up being a useless exercise for me. lately i've stoppped myself from saying what i want to say to people out loud and my goodness people IRL love me right now. i hope i can keep it up.

[Lipp]

No news is good news.

[Gigabitch]

Indi had an abortion on Christmas Eve, and then came on LF and said anyone who gets one is a hypocrite.

lulz, recursive logic.

Enough, already. Quit trying to stir it up with Indi. This is not her kind of banter. You want to **** with somebody, **** with somebody who can ban your ass if you piss them off. I notice you don't start shit with any of the mods. There are plenty to choose from. Why don't you give that a shot?

Maybe you could start with me. Or try ****ing with Fras and see how far that gets you.

[Gigabitch]

Oh, for Christ's sake. Look, can you just try to go a few days without acting like a total ass? Why do you have to be like this? You're such a ****ing pain in the ass. Did you come here specifically to annoy 'wing and Indi? Really?

My job should be banning spammers, not dealing with preschoolers with bad manners.

[Indignant]

Oh, for Christ's sake. Look, can you just try to go a few days without acting like a total ass? Why do you have to be like this? You're such a ****ing pain in the ass. Did you come here specifically to annoy 'wing and Indi? Really?

My job should be banning spammers, not dealing with preschoolers with bad manners.

he is right though Giga. stirring shit up with admins is an unfair fight. just ask Fras. is he not allowed to be himself here? do you think Indi and dop are always nice to everyone? oh please. but we'd never say anything to them, right? cuz they are veterans.

[Gigabitch]

If he was ****ing with the mods, I wouldn't have an inbox full of complaints about him.