...And if anyone is interested in hearing what happened: We had a looong talk tonight and it turns out:
He is interested but just don't want any relationship at all right now. I didn't think there was such a thing as being interested, but too busy for a relationship, but I learned today that there IS such a thing! So now you know!
He likes me a lot but really just wants to be single right now. "Sunmoonstars" - I think this answers your question that relationships are just as much about timing as about anything else!
So now I know the answer. I guess "Sunmoonstars" you were right, he is interested but just really really doesnt want a girlfriend at all right now.
Thanx anyway for all your replies, I appreciate your feedback!!