If this was all about "getting some ass" trust me, there are easier ways to do it. Just because I put "desperate for her love" in my thread title doesn't mean that this is my first ever experience with a woman. And yes I bare part of the blame, but no I don't feel like it's the larger part. I definitely should've left when she first told me about the bf (which I also believe was probably still with her the entire time) and I tried to. But what happened was she started calling me daily, sending me e-mails, text messaging me and telling me that i'm the only one for her and that she's gonna leave him for me.. So yes, I take fault for falling for it, but don't act like i'm not the victim here.
Be careful with your heart, because when someone seems too good to be true, they usually are.