So, basically what you're telling us is that you feel inferior to men you date, so you attempt to drag them through some minefield of games in attempt to make them feel like they have some false sense of accomplishment in landing you when actually you're not worth their time? Got it.
Either a woman likes me and wants to be around me, or she doesn't. If I want games I'll buy a deck of cards.
If men are losing interest in you that easily it's either because you actually have nothing to offer, or you're just really dating the wrong men repeatedly.
"Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."