I did something bad but I found out something bad...

[Ouchers]

Well, that's done with. I actually ended up letting her in the house. I decided to be quiet and cold, to see how she would react.
She asked: What's wrong? Are you okay baby?
Moi: You know what's wrong, why don't you tell me?

She acted pretty puzzled towards this and stuck with that routine for a good ten minutes, so I spilled the beans.
I told her that I knew what was going on and she still acted confused. So, I gave her an opportunity to explain.
I let her know that we could work through it if she was willing to try. (I was bullshitting)

Then she tells me everything, that they've been flirting and what not because I have been working so much. She said that they did not have sex but they hung out a few times.
Gave her a kiss, and my phone. I told her that she should call her mother because she isn't living in my apartment anymore.

She left, but she has been calling and txting me loads apologizing, telling me that she loves me, it was dumb, etc. I feel pretty bad. I really thought that this would feel better.

[ktm390]

Well, that's done with. I actually ended up letting her in the house. I decided to be quiet and cold, to see how she would react.
She asked: What's wrong? Are you okay baby?
Moi: You know what's wrong, why don't you tell me?

She acted pretty puzzled towards this and stuck with that routine for a good ten minutes, so I spilled the beans.
I told her that I knew what was going on and she still acted confused. So, I gave her an opportunity to explain.
I let her know that we could work through it if she was willing to try. (I was bullshitting)

Then she tells me everything, that they've been flirting and what not because I have been working so much. She said that they did not have sex but they hung out a few times.
Gave her a kiss, and my phone. I told her that she should call her mother because she isn't living in my apartment anymore.

She left, but she has been calling and txting me loads apologizing, telling me that she loves me, it was dumb, etc. I feel pretty bad. I really thought that this would feel better.

it just doesnt feel good cuz you didnt **** her over good enough! nice job anyway though. look at it this way, now you have the upper hand and if you want you can take her back and have an untrusting unhealthy relationship until you break up months or years down the road! let the slut go! you are the man, magnum!!

[SelflessnHumble]

Well, that's done with. I actually ended up letting her in the house. I decided to be quiet and cold, to see how she would react.
She asked: What's wrong? Are you okay baby?
Moi: You know what's wrong, why don't you tell me?

She acted pretty puzzled towards this and stuck with that routine for a good ten minutes, so I spilled the beans.
I told her that I knew what was going on and she still acted confused. So, I gave her an opportunity to explain.
I let her know that we could work through it if she was willing to try. (I was bullshitting)

Then she tells me everything, that they've been flirting and what not because I have been working so much. She said that they did not have sex but they hung out a few times.
Gave her a kiss, and my phone. I told her that she should call her mother because she isn't living in my apartment anymore.

She left, but she has been calling and txting me loads apologizing, telling me that she loves me, it was dumb, etc. I feel pretty bad. I really thought that this would feel better.

Hey, bromandungus...Dude, I am so proud of you!!!!!
Of course she is going to apologize: her ego has been freaking dealt a direct hit.
I know how you feel, I died inside with each "sorry" and "I love you" as I could see and/or hear the crocodile tears flow like liquid chocolate from out a fondu.

Still, that's what we're all here for man, to help you and support you!
You deserve a real woman who can appreciate all that you are, and what you provide a woman...She couldn't even realize the wrong she caused
until you freaking provided her with all but the murder weapon from the O.J simpson murder trial...I mean, it's not cool...

She breached your trust and that's a hard thing to move past.
It is possible she could realize her error and see how important you are, and how fragile human emotions can be...
Then again, I could tell you the funniest (but saddest) stories throughout my experiences as a player, a jerk and a control freak that would blow your mind!

I mean I paved my own yellow brick road of countless of failed relationships...
If you need any more advice don't hesitate...I don't have the answers I do from bullshitting...Even though I was the consummate professional at it.

Stay strong, resolute and focus on yourself, and what YOU have to offer.
Try new things and get to know yourself even more than before...You just might find someone and more experiences that aid in your growth and development!

We're here for you dude, don't forget that.

[SelflessnHumble]

oh my god, I think I'm in love with you! how ****ing hilarious is that? I like the way you tell the stories too... with the (wait for it) and shit HAHAHAHA this made my night man

I know, it's funny right? (but it's sadly so true)
I know I'm going to write a book or a memoir or mem-wa (John Malkovich from Burn After Reading) about all
of my experiences dealing with these people who actually thought I was so dumb not to notice things.

Although they do say that people often mistake quietness for being helpless.
It's even more revealing when you play *dumb* and those bone-headed people actually think they're fooling you!

Did I tell you about the time she went out of her way to meet up with me: then surprises me with (get this) her ex boyfriend showing up
because he owed her money, lol!!! Good stuff right there.... Gnight...

[MerryH]

I feel pretty bad. I really thought that this would feel better.

Even if you had treated her like shit or told her parents she was a whore or lit her things on fire or whatever nonsense, you still wouldn't be feeling good right now. Actually, in a few days (weeks, months, years,) you'd probably feel worse for handling it so poorly and immaturely. So I think you did the right thing. Breaking up always sucks, even when you're sure it is absolutely over.

Good job.

[girl68]

Whatever you do to dump the little ho don't start presuming all chicks cheat... It will ruin all future dating prospects, when you see a red flag just run but don't go around not trusting anyone because this chick cheated. There are plenty of nice girls out there who would never, so long as you're treating them right.

Goodluck dumping her ass. And a little humiliation would go a long way

[IncognitoSir]

Whatever you do to dump the little ho don't start presuming all chicks cheat... It will ruin all future dating prospects, when you see a red flag just run but don't go around not trusting anyone because this chick cheated. There are plenty of nice girls out there who would never, so long as you're treating them right.

Goodluck dumping her ass. And a little humiliation would go a long way

And don't go jump into another relationship to soon. And whatever you do, please don't date that bitch again. She's not sorry, she's sorry she got caught.

[Ouchers]

Thanks for the support you guys. I really appreciate it!
She finally stopped txting me, the last message was: "I'm really sorry. I will give you some space for now. I hope we can work things out... I love you"
Clearly she thinks this is a joke.

[girl68]

Hahaha... seriously? LOL, she hopes you can work it out? Yeah no...

Goodluck dude, you're a smart guy (I think). I like the "FOR NOW" bit...

[Ouchers]

Yeah, that "FOR NOW" actually gave me quite the chuckle.

[girl68]

If she texts you again an "yeah, I love me too" would be a good punch in her stomache ohhhh ouch.

[ktm390]

nice work man! **** her.....Magnum!!! i love magnum pi... i really wish that show was still on tv...... thank you for giving me a reason to look up tom selleck's totally awesome, bad ass, king of the world moustache!!! mine just pales in comparison. i mean mine was pretty cool i thought, all handlebar redneck hillbilly and shit, but nothing compares to magnum's stache!

[Darkest Heaven]

Doesn't look like you need all that much help here, but I just wanted to say good job. She has permanently breached trust, let her suffer the consequences, she deserves nothing more from you.