How do i know if this older guy likes me?

[zoomx3]

You're asking the wrong guy here. I'm secretly in love with a girl who's 16 years younger than me.

The only thing I wonder about in your case: is this guy grading your lab work? He could get in trouble with the university/college if so.

haha, he's not my supervisor; he just works in the same lab. so i assume it's not against any university rules

[zoomx3]

oh and should i always let him take initiative asking me out to lunch and stuff... or should i ask him to lunch next time?

[MaidenMinx]

9 years is nothing. Go for it!!

[zoomx3]

he asked me to dinner today =)
should i initiate asking him to a meal sometime soon....?

[Charlie Boy II]

No it's probably not necessary.

For most guys, it's enough if a girl keeps accepting.