Originally Posted by
a19drift
First, take hold of yourself girl! Don't be insecure, thinking because you miss a couple calls once or twice a week that there's some other chick all up on your man, and he's being a bad boy. Are you good enough for him? Hell yes. Is that enough? Hell yes. Can you handle not hearing from him every waking moment, of every single day? You better be able to.
So his communication has slacked a little bit, life changes. People get busy, and every person balances it differently.
I'm big on 'Don't say you're going to do something, and then don't do it'; so I DO know where you're coming from here, but don't just get pissed and fly off the handle. He more than likely thinks things are okay, and if you come to him freaking out with this problem, it's going to be a large surprise to him.
Be calm. Say you'd rather he not say he's going to call and then not call, and if something comes up, if he could just take a couple seconds to say so, and get back with you later. Texting is a quick conversation invention kids.
If you have to talk to this guy daily, you're going to have to make sure he knows that there are some times better than other times.
Don't be so negative lady, it's going to be okay.