How to deal with carrying on living together?

[searock]

Not even one percent as good as the old original.

Hear, hear!

[brokenhearted91]

We moved in together in a university situation, as in we knew it would only be for, well less than a year and to see how we'd cope. I never thought he'd move the goal posts we both set ourselves and end it so soon. I'm in the situation where I moved to this Uni to be closer to him and make things work, I have no other friends here, I literally have no one (I'm very shy and struggle to meet new people and I know it's my fault) so living/staying somewhere else isn't an option. It's so hard when I don't want to break up and he does.

[michelle23]

You need to get out and meet new people. Your relationship with him was unhealthy-you were too dependant on him and he took complete advantage of that. You need to become independant OP and learn to stand on your own two feet. You also need to work on your self esteem and learn you deserve better than this. You shouldnt take all that crap off any man. Seriously wake up here. Get out, join a hobby, make new friends, focus on building up your confidence and learn there is more to life than this little boy who clearly has no respect for you.

Next time you meet someone, set your standards higher and walk away if he hurts you. Otherwise you will find yourself hurt over and over again by the same useless scumbags

[vashti]

^^^ Is that you, Iamma?

No; he was never trollish towards me.

[Wakeup]

No; he was never trollish towards me.

True that!

*I was *trying* to be sarcastic.

*hangs head at failure*

[basilandthyme]

We moved in together in a university situation, as in we knew it would only be for, well less than a year and to see how we'd cope. I never thought he'd move the goal posts we both set ourselves and end it so soon. I'm in the situation where I moved to this Uni to be closer to him and make things work, I have no other friends here, I literally have no one (I'm very shy and struggle to meet new people and I know it's my fault) so living/staying somewhere else isn't an option. It's so hard when I don't want to break up and he does.

Yes, well people do tend to end things if our behaviour drives them away. And it's hardly his fault that you have nobody else.

Stop playing the victim and get out there and life life.

[Lubna]

i think .. If you are sincere this is one of big care for some one