To Pathetic Personals....

[Innova]

And thats the way, the cookie crumbles!

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by Zekk_T_Strife
But.....no one really agrees with MVP. lol

YOU don't agree with me, I've had 7 members of THIS forum PM me their gratitude after I gave them my POV and I've had a few tell me that I've fixed the situation they were in for the better, incl. the very first forum member to flame me. You say you don't want to be a DJ or a Player, thats your call, and others have made the same call, but that doesn't mean that when I break down what happens on someone's date that I can't be right simply because I have a different philosophy. When I tell people what goes on my advice is usually correct. You don't have to be a DJ to have use for my advice.

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About the DJ influx, what the hell are you people talking about. There are three DJs here, ME, TonyTheTigerOI (who hasn't visited in 3 months, GigaloDJ who left, and MAYBE... MAYBE... DIESEL, whose banned. Our forum is still up and running and I don't know if DIESEL is a member or not, we have 14,000 members.

[Innova]

of which only about 60 at most is active or even visits

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by Innova
of which only about 60 at most is active or even visits

No, we get an average of about 800 logins a day.

[sfalexi]

You don't have to be a DJ to have use for my advice.

This is very true that you can use DJ advice for different things. For me myself, I used to be a very shy, stay in my own house and do nothing kind of person. Then, by picking and choosing which advice I'd like to in order to try to 'get women', it helped a lot. I'm still no Don Juan or playa, but I do get more looks than I ever did before. And some of the advice was so simple that I wouldn't have even noticed it. Something as simple as a different haircut or difference style shirt can do wonders.

Deep down I'm not a player, and I doubt I will ever become a player, but I do like to know that if I'm interested in one particular girl, I at least now have the confidence to go up to her and talk to her and get her interested in me as well. Sometimes it works well, sometimes it doesn't, but the success rate of advice like his and other DJs on an old forum I used to visit is much higher than the success rate of NOT taking their advice.

And even more bizarre is when you see someone who is a complete DJ and playa do some miraculous things. Such as when I saw one (not a personal friend of mine, but more of an aquaintance) manage to talk his way into a free room at a hotel. Two nights in a row just with good flirting and smiling at the girl behind the counter! Or the guy who (at least I thought) wasn't that attractive and he had a lisp, but he'd look in a store, like the girl behind the counter, and minutes later come out putting her phone number in his pocket and getting some free or heavily discounted gear.

The best I ever got up to was free stuff at Taco Bell I flirted heavily with the girl behind the counter. But I'm an amateur at this stuff, and the fact of the matter is it still worked. And when you get months of free food at your favorite spot to eat on campus I'm not gonna complain.

So take his advice for what it's worth. I'm not interested in going out and partying and sleeping around while MVP most certainly is, but if I'm interested in someone, I now have certain 'tools' and a better sense of confidence to know that I can at least go out with her and learn more about her.

So while I don't have the same goals as MVP, he's getting the ladies. And if you want to just get a certain lady interested in you, a lot he says is gonna work for you. And on the plus side, if you take his advice and apply it to a few people at once, instead of hanging out with one girl and finding out she's not for you, you have your pick of girls to choose from. So it makes it more possible for you to make the "right" choice for the girl to start a relatoinship with (if that's what you were looking for as was I).

Alexi

PS - As for the Diesel thing, yeah he was annoying, but only because he thought that everyone should be LIKE HIM. And that's stupid. He should've posted his ideas and left out the insults. But even then everyone really needs to realize that this is (and I'm going to say it again) a forum. You don't have to agree and rebuttle everything that's said on this place and you DO have the option to ignore it without repurcussions. But people here get caught up too much in "Oh no. I was insulted and now I need to tick them off over the internet as much as they ticked me off". I think sometimes we need to just chill out and ignore the stuff you don't like. Keep your view and let them have theirs and don't get so damn worked up over stuff!

Alexi

[LightOn]

There is a DIESEL on DJ forum that also went to another forum to stir things up. I'd post the links, but it's really not my duty to exploit anyone anymore than I already have. I am simply taking the heat off of the alleged "Stalker" Lets not let our big heads get the best of us.

MVP, I am not trying to point a finger, but I believe people smell conspiracy everytime you show respect for someone. I think that should be pretty obvious.

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by LightOn
MVP, I am not trying to point a finger, but I believe people smell conspiracy everytime you show respect for someone. I think that should be pretty obvious.

Originally posted by LightOn
MVP, I am not trying to point a finger, but I believe people smell conspiracy everytime you...

Originally posted by LightOn
conspiracy everytime

Originally posted by LightOn
MVP, I am trying to point a finger. I smell conspiracy everytime you show respect for someone. I think that should be pretty obvious.

Originally posted by LightOn
MVP, I smell conspiracy everytime you show respect

Originally posted by LightOn
I smell conspiracy. I think that should be pretty obvious.

Originally posted by LightOn
MVP, I am not trying to point a finger, I smell conspiracy everytime you show respect. That should be pretty obvious.

[LightOn]

[Zekk_T_Strife]

wtf