He broke it off

[IndiReloaded]

Interesting that so many women on here come and say 'well he was a loser anyways' yet so many of you already know who you're with yet still decide to keep going...the point being, once you know someone (and it doesn't take too long) why keep going? women are trying to change men and make them something they'll never become and then the blame is on him...come on..

I agree. Unless there are children, or marriage, there is no reason to stay in a bad relationship any longer than necessary. Others will disagree, but I believe that people who have reached adulthood never really change. Some behaviour modification if they really want? Sure, a bit. But what actually drives a person is with them for life once their personality is set, around adolescence/early adulthood.

[lovemuffin]

Can everyone here really tell me they wouldn't have broken things off after finding out the new person you're dating and crazy about was freaked out for days because they heard through the grapevine their ex might call... let alone then finding out later they really did talk to them and had a fight, lied to you about it, and when you ask them if they are still in love with the ex their response is: "I think so" ?