asked out by co-worker... but I have a bf

[girl68]

Thanks Loud, you're done with your advice on the subject. times 2

[AmyWright]

Id say just make your bf happy whatever that takes.

[girl68]

Thanks amy, however... I could counter that with the following statement:

What he doesn't know doesn't hurt. He would be just joyous to be at home playing videogames all night, alone. I could say I was out shopping with my BFF.

And no, I'm not a cheater- I know my limits and I play within it.

[Primo]

I think all the guys in this thread are just happy they're not your b/f :-D

Hey whatever you end up doing girl68, have fun !

[loudrims_inc]

Id say just make your bf happy whatever that takes.

thats the best answer

[Primo]

I'm afraid she's going to add me and Amy to her no more advice list :-( Don't do that to me girl68 !!!!! :-)

[loudrims_inc]

Thanks Loud, you're done with your advice on the subject.

Thanks Loud, you're done with your advice on the subject. times 2

noo i think shes adding me to that list...she summoned me twice lol

i still loveeeeee u "girl68" lol

[Mish]

WTF, it's after work BEER! Shit, I've done after work beer with my boss, dad, other co-workers

It's not the same because these people didn't have a vested interest in getting into your pants like this guy appears to have. You should've canceled it the moment you realized this isn't just a normal "two friends having a beer" thing.

[girl68]

Comments stating your pleasure of having me not as your gf are distasteful.

[girl68]

BEER=PUSSY?

Okay.

[Mish]

No, Consistently persisting to have beer and suggesting an exclusive place = I want your pussy. Seeing how defensive you are to any suggestions that this is the case shows that you've already made up your mind. You are not asking for opinions any longer, you are just looking for people who will agree with the conclusion you've come to.

[chump4u]

Now that you've blown off Loud and Primo, perhaps I can take their place?

I think you're perfectly all right to sneak around on your bf, run out with some random dick to knock a few back, and do just anything else your strong, independent girl status requires you to do.

And I definitely think that you should keep it a secret from your boyfriend.
He'll never find out...never...no possible way.

And when he does find out, I'd advise you not to go home without a restraining order in your hand, and a cop by your side to enforce the order. I expect that your boyfriend will have a strong urge to ram his suitcase up your a** on his way out the door.

[girl68]

Not really. I have digested most comments and sugguestions and have not made up my mind.

And asking twice isn't really "consistently".

Thanks chumpshit. I love obvious sarcasm, no mix ups there!

[Mish]

So then I thought, my it's sounding more and more like a "date" and it will only be just the two of us. I ask our mutual co-worker who is his friend and she said yeah, he's probably interested you're his type.

Anyway, you know that this is wrong and you're heading into some uncertain and potentially dangerous territory. If you want to avoid sending mixed signals or having regrets later on, you should just cancel it.

[Primo]

Comments stating your pleasure of having me not as your gf are distasteful.

In all seriousness, if you do go, I wouldn't want to know the truth. Keep it a secret, but be honest to yourself about why you're going and maybe think about how you feel towards your b/f deep down.