Originally Posted by
Perryville
Glith, it seems to me that you bear at least some of the responsibility for this happening. If you would have told her about this problem and asked her discretion, perhaps she would not have gone to outside people to discuss it. Her bad, was to go to friends and relatives, when she should have consulted a professional therapist or councellor. I mean , for Christ's sake, there are many, many, trained professionals , that deal with just such issues. For her to make your intimate affairs a topic of conversation is a major deal breaker. For her to expect you to interact with these people is also not respectful. My advice is to go your own ways. You will always have trust issues with her, and she will always be less than respectful to you. It seems a no win situation.