Originally Posted by
Cerby
I think you're missing the point, you're equating love to the amount of money spent on someone. She used to bake for you a buy you small things that showed she cared. She didn't buy you baseball tickets, therefore she didn't love you? The f*ck? Bro, the OP has problems with his gf doing nothing and wanting to keep it like that. You on the other hand pampered the sh*t out of your gf and were unhappy when she didn't spend a fortune back on you. Who in their right mind spends $1200 on someone for xmas? My god man, your problems are much different, you see a relationship balance based on dollars, not on feelings.
Your lesson is to invest less financially and more emotionally, because I assure you, you won't find many women who will spend the coin on you that you do on them. I've been dating my gf for 2 years and maybe the total sum of gifts including the trip to Vegas was $1200.