I called my gf a PIG, by mistake... What do I do now?

[Junket]

I thanked you Starbuck cuz you had 666 thanks and I hate that number lol

I think I will thank you until you reach 666 thank yous, then ban you so you can't do anything about it.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

I know you wouldnt do that Frasbee. If you did that, DM would no longer have LF eye candy. Now would you really wanna do that to him?

[vashti]

I assumed from the way the original post was worded that the girl meant the comparison to be "cute", otherwise she would have called him a rat. Did I misunderstand this?

[Lite]

I assumed from the way the original post was worded that the girl meant the comparison to be "cute", otherwise she would have called him a rat. Did I misunderstand this?

After thinking about it, I'm kind of more concerned that the OP's first reaction to feeling embarassed or belittled was to lash out at the person. Makes me wonder if they have self control and anger issues. Either way it's not a good habit to have so young.

[misombra]

so "smart" men are not allowed to have a sense of humor and joke around, huh?

a smart/respectful man knows not to joke around like that.

[Gribble]

I assumed from the way the original post was worded that the girl meant the comparison to be "cute", otherwise she would have called him a rat. Did I misunderstand this?

I also got the impression that he called her a pig just to be "cute". Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't think he was actually commenting on her weight.

In either case, I think he should react just as stupidly as she. Being called a mouse could be viewed as emasculating. When she comes crawling back looking to make up he should give her the exact same treatment.

[Charlie Boy II]

I assumed from the way the original post was worded that the girl meant the comparison to be "cute", otherwise she would have called him a rat. Did I misunderstand this?

No.


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[IndiReloaded]

Whatever. I think they are both stupid, just for different reasons.

His error is easily fixed. Hers, however, is not. Good luck with this one, I say.

[djdiablo]

Lots of replies. I appreciate every single one of them. Thank you kindly.

UPDATE:
I talked to my mate that I trust very much with this type of stuff. He told me two things:

1. "YOU obviously need to give her the card. I suggest you don't but if you do, do not mention anything about calling her a pig. Mention about how you replied with another animal movie and the first one that came out was Babe, a rather popular one. You blundered. You did not mean to hurt her feelings. You were only trying to be funny. Whatever you do, DO NOT apologize again. No woman likes a wussy. If she fails to get over this, there is no point in keeping this relationship going."

2. When you give her the card write something like "These are the 13 things I love about you" and subtly focus on her looks, details of her personality and her behavior that you like." Focus on the POSITIVE and how much you care about her. She can then keep the card. No apologies. No pigs. Just an explanation and a statement that you care about her in many ways.

I thought the above was VERY sound advice and it reiterated certain posts here. So I wrote the card and I was going to deliver it in her mailbox. But then she txted me with "Can you come over tomorrow morning?". As much as I wanted to send her a message back with "YES YES YES I want to come over and move on" I said "I would like that very much. See you then!". So now I am going to see her in a few hours. If it works out I will give her the card anyway. If not, well then it wasn't even worth worrying about.

[Junket]

I know you wouldnt do that Frasbee.

Of course I wouldn't.

If you did that, DM would no longer have LF eye candy. Now would you really wanna do that to him?

But when you put it this way...

[Junket]

Lots of replies. I appreciate every single one of them. Thank you kindly.

UPDATE:
I talked to my mate that I trust very much with this type of stuff. He told me two things:

1. "YOU obviously need to give her the card. I suggest you don't but if you do, do not mention anything about calling her a pig. Mention about how you replied with another animal movie and the first one that came out was Babe, a rather popular one. You blundered. You did not mean to hurt her feelings. You were only trying to be funny. Whatever you do, DO NOT apologize again. No woman likes a wussy. If she fails to get over this, there is no point in keeping this relationship going."

2. When you give her the card write something like "These are the 13 things I love about you" and subtly focus on her looks, details of her personality and her behavior that you like." Focus on the POSITIVE and how much you care about her. She can then keep the card. No apologies. No pigs. Just an explanation and a statement that you care about her in many ways.

I thought the above was VERY sound advice and it reiterated certain posts here. So I wrote the card and I was going to deliver it in her mailbox. But then she txted me with "Can you come over tomorrow morning?". As much as I wanted to send her a message back with "YES YES YES I want to come over and move on" I said "I would like that very much. See you then!". So now I am going to see her in a few hours. If it works out I will give her the card anyway. If not, well then it wasn't even worth worrying about.

Send your friend to this forum so we can adopt him. He sounds quality.

[Charlie Boy II]

For chrissakes don't give her the card unless you want to hand your balls over with it. You've done enough ass-kissing over this non-event.

[lesa]

Send your friend to this forum so we can adopt him. He sounds quality.

I agree. He gave great advice but I agree that the card thing should be eliminated. I would do number 1. Say you thought of another movie and did not mean to hurt her feelings. Then leave it at that. No more apologizing about it.

[Junket]

Oh, I thought the card was like, for her birthday or somethin'.

[Illusional]

f*ck it, she'll get over it...

i've called my gf a lot of things that are far worse that a pig and what happened... nothing. patience my friend.

raverboy