Hubby doesn't tell me where he's going

[VincenzoG91]

Maybe he has another wife and kid somewhere.

[bcgirl]

Well what I'd like to know is how does the conversation go between them. This is all we've got from the bits and pieces from the op

Wife : "Where were you?"
Husband : "I dunno"
Wife: "k. Where were you"
Husband : "I dunno"
Wife: "ok"

[Fawlkes]

Well what I'd like to know is how does the conversation go between them. This is all we've got from the bits and pieces from the op

Wife : "Where were you?"
Husband : "I dunno"
Wife: "k. Where were you"
Husband : "I dunno"
Wife: "ok"

Every time I bring it up he either says nothing at all or "I don't know." When I repeat the question he always walks off.

[Fawlkes]

Also, we hardly ever see each other at the moment because we tend to work and sleep at different times.

[IndiReloaded]

Ah geeze. LOL! Nice switch.

[VincenzoG91]

Every time I bring it up he either says nothing at all or "I don't know." When I repeat the question he always walks off.

Then there is nothing to talk about. All that is left is for you to decide if you want a better life. If so, you need to leave him.

[Wakeup]

I say we all chip in and get a private detective all up on his ass.

[smackie9]

i say we all chip in and get a private detective all up on his ass.

lol................

[smackie9]

Every time I bring it up he either says nothing at all or "I don't know." When I repeat the question he always walks off.

Grow a set and be a little more aggressive in your approach...like suggesting a divorce and taking everything he owns.

[bcgirl]

Every time I bring it up he either says nothing at all or "I don't know." When I repeat the question he always walks off.

The reason why he behaves like this is the plain fact of Because he CAN and he knows it! He can get away with it and you don't even give him a slap on the wrist. What will happen is he will keep ignoring your question, time passes, you get too busy with work and the kids, eventually you will stop asking him because too much time passes, he gets away yet again with it, he does it again because his crime was way too easy..., the cycle continues.
Which also makes me question the discipline your children are getting... I suspect none! Which will certainly make them into bratty adults who will think that behaving like their father is okay.

[Fawlkes]

He did not get away with it! I took his cigarette money to punish him and spent it on things I needed.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

He did not get away with it! I took his cigarette money to punish him and spent it on things I needed.

You're a retard. You should give your kids up for adoption..they'll be much better off.

[searock2]

...wow. Just, wow.

[Wakeup]

He did not get away with it! I took his cigarette money to punish him and spent it on things I needed.

What kind of dysfunction is really going on in your house, Fawlkes? This doesn't sound like a grown up relationship of interdependence to me.

Does he not work? (sorry if you've mentioned this already, but humour me and answer again anyway).

[Fawlkes]

Yes, he has a regular job.