Am I overreacting? Or was he out of line?

[toknow]

No. You should not feel like you are walking on eggshells. Though, it's not his reaction you are worried about, it's your reaction to his reaction that makes you feel the way you feel. And if you feel like you are walking on eggshells, you will not be able to love him, and continue in this relationship. You might even end up resenting him for it. The fact that his response was so out of place, will make you feel insecure, because it wasn't logical, it didn't have a logical reason. So, now your subconscious knows this can happen randomly at any time - for no apparent reason. You either have to get rid of that feeling, or him - you might have to dump him. I honestly don't see this getting better. In fact, I expect you at some point to start a thread about this happening again.

[Starnique]

It's not a big deal, he didnt jump in your face or hit you. Move on.