If you arent feeling threatened by a guy that youve known for years making a pass at this girl you love so much, maybe its time to reevaluate your feelings. Naturally you should be uber pissed if he kissed your gal. If you arent getting the feeling of anger or jealousy then theres a good chance you don love this girl as much as you say.
Well 1. I haven't known him for years I've never met him in my life, and 2. I didnt say i wasnt jealous, if I wasn't then this whole thing wouldn't be a big deal to me and I didn't say I'm not angry, decking him would feel pretty good right now...I said I don't feel threatened by him - which I dont! I dont see that he's a threat to me in any sense!
I agree - I fancy Cheryl cole like mad but whats it matter cause at the end of the day if miss cole ever was to throw herself at me i'd say 'sorry Cheryl I've got a gf'.
Your right it shouldn't of, I just don't want to make a call id regret y'know? At least if I try I wont be left with a what if.OP i am a total b**ch when it comes to cheating. I am so dead set against it and truly believe it is unforgivable. I mean you dont slip on a banana skin and end up with your tongue down someones throat by accident.. It shouldnt have happened-it was wrong but it doesnt matter what i or anyone else thinks. This is your life and your relationship. If you think you can forgive her and move past this-then go ahead. Just make sure you get all your QS answered before making a decision and you and she do need to talk openly and honestly about this
If it was just a bit of fun like some past gfs then no it wouldn't be, but this is the girl that I see a 20 year anniversary and 3 kids with, y'know?just ask yourself is an 18month relationship worth it? If you were together 20 years and had 3kids-then i could understand your desire to forgive but this is still a relatively new relationship
As in with me or him?and id say your girl doesnt understand the difference between infatuation and love (which is a big red flag so perhaps you should discuss that too if your gonna stay together
Ok Fraser, its going on two days now. Just make a decision and get on with your life. Anymore time spent here is just a waste
I think he is trying to convince himself over and over he is making the right decision.
Frazer i meant in general about infatuation. Like as soon as soon as those butterfly feelings fade (which is totally normal) she may think somethings wrong and go looking for infatuation again with someone else.
But thats all what ifs and speculation.
Its obvious you are not ready to break up so try and work it out. See how you feel in a month or two. If you still feel like crap then-you can walk away knowing you tried
keep us updated and good luck
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